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My Unit thread got deleted!! Along with the other dudes thread. If anyone wants to see my original thread, lemme know I'll private msg it to you. I spent a long time writing it too.
Ladies just agree with us. You wouldn't date a stripper either if you were a guy:
My Unit thread got deleted!! Along with the other dudes thread. If anyone wants to see my original thread, lemme know I'll private msg it to you. I spent a long time writing it too.
Ladies just agree with us. You wouldn't date a stripper either if you were a guy:
What got deleted? Why do I always miss the fun? What happened?
The youtube clip, pretty disgusting, but I've seen worse. I've been to three strip clubs in my life. Two dumps and one that is considered high class I guess (howard stern's favorite). I've seen unbelievable things at all three. I won't go into detail though because it'll probably ruffle some feathers on here. But I was pretty shocked at what was going on.
Oobie; it's funny that you only slept with 2 guys, one of whom is your husband! That's definitely not what I think when I think of a stripper!
But I have to ask; didn't you consider doing a different type of job? I know it's nice to make LOTS of money, but lots of people don't and they get by. Did you consider doing anything else?
Has it ever been an issue between you and your husband? No respect issues?
If that's too personal a question, then just ignore it, but I am interested.
I have no problem answering the questions. Sure I could have done something else, but I love dancing (not THAT kind, but just dancing in general) and, I was good at it I had no friends, so it put me into a social place also. It gave me something to do that I "enjoyed" so to say. There were aspects of the job that I hated, but it gave me the money I needed to live. I did meet some girls that were nice (waitresses mostly) and a few clientes that were "nicer" young guys. My husband didn't mind at first, then as we grew more serious he became jealous. Once I realized my feelings for him and vice versa, I quit. It doesn't bother him now, he knows the real me and that I wasn't the typical dancer. He knows I hated the sexual part of it, but enjoyed the dancing. It opened me up a bit too, as shy as I was it has helped me with my own sexuality. Does that make sense?
[quote=NooYowkur81;1927208]Would you date a stripper?
Would you seriously date one, or just have a fun casual thing?
What would you do?
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I happen to be a former stripper/dancer and I think that many dancers get a bad rep just by being in that environment. Everybody is different you won't know how she is until you get to know her. Don't judge her by what she decides to do to make money. She maybe a fun person to kick it with. I say if you are attracted like you say you are and she feels the same way go right ahead and take it day by day and find out if she is fun to hang out with. It's hard for men to think that a woman can undress and get paid for it and not sleep with the customers but it is highly possible. It can be done. the guy just has to be secure in his manhood and trust that the woman is all about business and not promiscuity..........Now on the other hand if you find out that she isn't looking for a serious relationship and just wants to have fun then you are both on the same page and i say go for it and enjoy
A perfectly innocent discussion got raped and killed by a brainwashed pervert.
Well that explains everything
Anyway, I'm assuming someone gave their opinion that wasn't popular with everyone else. Let's remember, EVERYONE is entitled to type or say what their opinion is whether the rest of us like it or not. There are things people say that I don't like sometimes, and we bicker back and forth for a while, but I would NEVER want someone to hold their opinions inside just because they differ from mine.
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I had no friends, so it put me into a social place also. It gave me something to do that I "enjoyed" so to say. There were aspects of the job that I hated, but it gave me the money I needed to live. I did meet some girls that were nice (waitresses mostly) and a few clientes that were "nicer" young guys. My husband didn't mind at first, then as we grew more serious he became jealous. Once I realized my feelings for him and vice versa, I quit. It doesn't bother him now, he knows the real me and that I wasn't the typical dancer. He knows I hated the sexual part of it, but enjoyed the dancing. It opened me up a bit too, as shy as I was it has helped me with my own sexuality. Does that make sense?
