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Old 06-24-2013, 02:52 PM
 
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Now we're getting to the root of your strong feelings on this topic, I believe.
Not really, just that I don't want to be approached by old men.
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:52 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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well, I said in my experience, I didn't ask you to agree with me.

I said "he doesn't have to." but if he has to, go ahead chase after whoever or whatever. I don't find old men attractive, period.

I am 28 years old, I have never seen a good looking 50 year old I want to have sex with, I probably never will.
As I didn't ask you to agree with me or my opinion.

Just because you're not receptive to an older man, doesn't mean other younger women feel the same way. At 25, there's no way I would have dismissed a man who looked like Jason Statham at a bar/lounge just because he was 45+.
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:54 PM
 
Location: ogden
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Im 19 and alot of older men hit on me sti im even married with 3kids
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Not really, just that I don't want to be approached by old men.
Too bad. We don't get to decide who approaches us. We only get to decide how we respond when approached.
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:56 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Just because you're not receptive to an older man, doesn't mean other younger women feel the same way.
This is the crux of what she is completely unwilling to accept.
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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No, I'm definitely not, in fact I put in the poster's name,
I know-- and it wasn't my name. So why did you direct it to me as if it was something I had said?
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:57 PM
 
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Too bad. We don't get to decide who approaches us. We only get to decide how we respond when approached.
The thing is when it seems older men (except for younger men wanting sex)are the majority of men contacting then it gets annoying. Then when you say no and they keep doing so it gets worse.
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:58 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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As I didn't ask you to agree with me or my opinion.

Just because you're not receptive to an older man, doesn't mean other younger women feel the same way. At 25, there's no way I would have dismissed a man who looked like Jason Statham at a bar/lounge just because he was 45+.
Well, I am 28, I don't find a 50 year old attractive. It is natural, right?
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:58 PM
 
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As I didn't ask you to agree with me or my opinion.

Just because you're not receptive to an older man, doesn't mean other younger women feel the same way. At 25, there's no way I would have dismissed a man who looked like Jason Statham at a bar/lounge just because he was 45+.
But would you take a fat ugly man who was 45 when you were 25? not likely.
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Old 06-24-2013, 02:58 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Who said that?

I said, "In my experience, a classy well off 50 year old will not chase after a 17 year old or a 27 year old, he doesn't have to." Why are some of you so sensitive? Don't take it so personally.

I was actually giving these classy men a lot of compliment right there. These men have a lot of options, they don't need to "go after" anybody if they want to get laid. Why should they? My dad is in his 70s, he still has beautiful women flirt with him all the time, but you and I both know what these women are after, they are not after a 70 year old man, they are after what a 70 year old man is offering. My dad is not delusional, plus, he has my mom already.

Ok, but your initial statement was in regards to a 50 year old man, not a MARRIED 70 year old man.
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