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Old 06-23-2013, 10:15 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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It seems like the OP hates any question that comes out of a woman's mouth. Hmmm....another thread how he hates a certain question....maybe you should try to get some friends and go out with them. You obviously hate talking to women.

Ask me about my likes, food, activities, summer plans, july 4th plans, those are normal questions before the face to face meeting
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Toronto
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She stayed on the phone but when I answer that question I always have a arkward feeling because it's so personal and it's so early

Yes maybe you are right, and she didn't give off the 42 year old vibe. Felt like I was talking to a 33 year old
How do you know when she asks if you want kids that she wants kids? Maybe she's asking because she doesn't want kids and she wants to make sure you're on the same page.
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:17 AM
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Go for a long walk or take a drive somewhere and explore life yourself. You don't need anyone else. I haven't had a date in almost 2 years. I'm not letting that get in the way of me living.

You could take in a sporting event. Great single tickets are almost always easy to find. Sometimes you can sit and talk with strangers but be prepared as that does not always happen.

The problem is when I am alone I always see women who are my type out with their man. Like yesterday when I went out alone to upgrade my phone all I saw was couples hugged up and it was irritating the hell out of me

I guess Saturday is a true couple's day
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:18 AM
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Go for a bike ride. Catch a movie. We have Queen Street in Toronto, you can walk that street and something is always happening.

There are lots of things you can do by yourself.

Do you really want to date a woman who wants kids? Even if you lie, she's going to suss it out. You're wasting your time and her time. You want to spend money on a pointless date? She's saving you time here buddy.

I think there are a few dating sites that ask do you want kids but not many. I think they all should be like that
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:19 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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The problem is when I am alone I always see women who are my type out with their man. Like yesterday when I went out alone to upgrade my phone all I saw was couples hugged up and it was irritating the hell out of me.
Just ignore them and focus on what you're doing. It's not that hard.
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Some people care a lot more about their "image" and "appearance" than others do.

I fall somewhere in between you and the OP. I can be embarrassed in some activities if I'm alone, but I am usually able to tell myself, "but who cares what they think, really" ?

For some people, their image is one of the most important things in their life.
In the end you will be quickly forgotten about and you will never see them again.

I hardly doubt many will say "did you see that guy out alone?" If they do they are the ones with the issues and the probable empty lives since they can't come up with anything intelligent to say.
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:20 AM
 
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The problem is when I am alone I always see women who are my type out with their man. Like yesterday when I went out alone to upgrade my phone all I saw was couples hugged up and it was irritating the hell out of me

I guess Saturday is a true couple's day
If I recall, you go on a lot of dates.

If you were a little less rigid in what you will accept in a woman, Saturday could be a "couples day" for you, too.

To at least some extent, OP, your fate in life is self made.
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:20 AM
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How do you know when she asks if you want kids that she wants kids? Maybe she's asking because she doesn't want kids and she wants to make sure you're on the same page.

If someone didn't want kids then what would be the point in bringing up the topic? So I don't I agree with you about she may not want kids either.
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:23 AM
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Just ignore them and focus on what you're doing. It's not that hard.

But the other irritating part is they are checking me out on the sneak tip and with another guy


Don't check me out if you are with another man.
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Old 06-23-2013, 10:23 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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Put that you don't want kids, don't like kids, and don't want to be around kids into your on-line profile. That should head off any problem.

Of course, a woman might still ask where you live and send you into a rage, but maybe you could put "Don't ask me where I live" into your profile, too, and end that problem.

It always saves a lot of trouble if you are very clear about what you want, right from the beginning.
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