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View Poll Results: is lingerie more for the man or the woman?
I'm a woman, and I think it's more for the man. 17 30.91%
I'm a man, and I think its more for the woman. 13 23.64%
I'm a woman, and I think it's more for the woman. 11 20.00%
I'm a man, and I thint it's mor for the man. 14 25.45%
Voters: 55. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 10-04-2013, 02:11 PM
 
Location: Windham County, VT
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My response is *not* meant to say anything about how anyone *else* feels, just how it is for me.

I'm a woman, and I think lingerie is more for the man. That's because I don't enjoy wearing it, as it is (for me)
physically quite uncomfortable, costs too much, and is too delicate to launder properly.
I'm a very down-to-earth, practical, "brass tacks" type of person who needs all clothing to be
machine-washable, sturdy, soft & unstructured, and not too pricey.

Plus, this is a very cold climate here, skimpy things don't insulate me,
and being chilly doesn't make me want to disrobe.
So I'd rather stick with wearing multiple layers of warm clothing,
and hope my guy is content with me, as is-and to heck with lingerie
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Old 10-04-2013, 02:22 PM
 
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definitely for women

men don't look good in lingerie
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Old 10-04-2013, 02:43 PM
 
Location: USA
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Lingerie is for me. Men prefer it on the floor or not at all-don't know how much they even notice it.

^^This
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Old 10-04-2013, 04:07 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Depends on the people in question. My experiences have been that it's been for the man. I don't think I even look good in some of the things that I wear.
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Old 11-07-2013, 12:17 AM
 
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, keep it sexy and stick to red or black
I disagree! Green always looked best on olive skinned raven haired Italian girls!


cheers,
bolillo
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Old 11-07-2013, 12:30 AM
 
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I disagree! Green always looked best on olive skinned raven haired Italian girls!


cheers,
bolillo
Indeed. Some skin tones can wear outside the red/black options.

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Old 11-07-2013, 12:54 AM
 
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Women love playing dress up, particularly if they have the body for it, but who is the lingerie really for? I can say that for me. lingerie is no more sexy than a generic thong and bra if a woman is in shape, but I notice it seems to make women feel sexy, which translates into more confidence in the bedroom.

what is your opinion on this?
I agree. It's mostly for the woman.

Lingerie can make a person feel sexay.

Sorta like when a person wears high heels. Something about wearing clothes that play with one's own imaginations and eroticizes the experience? Makes it that much more intense.
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Old 11-07-2013, 09:51 AM
 
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If lingerie were for men wouldn't more of them being wearing it themselves (men's of course).

I once suggested my dh buy me some sexy underwear. He got me a thong. I told him if he wore it one day then I would wear it. It was never worn.
lol, and now, pretty much every woman below the age of 40 wears a thong. Back in High school everyday was ''thong for everyone to see'' day. College was the same. And when women show up in front of me with their tight to the point of cutting off their blood circulation and in their yoga pants, its pretty darn obvious they have a thong or a g-string. Most women who have a nice butt are using a thong. Even the skinny/fat are, anyway.
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Old 11-07-2013, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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lol, and now, pretty much every woman below the age of 40 wears a thong. Back in High school everyday was ''thong for everyone to see'' day. College was the same. And when women show up in front of me with their tight to the point of cutting off their blood circulation and in their yoga pants, its pretty darn obvious they have a thong or a g-string. Most women who have a nice butt are using a thong. Even the skinny/fat are, anyway.
Not really. Many women think they are not very comfy and are moving to hipsters or cheekies.


I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.
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Old 11-07-2013, 02:38 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Tough call--I could actually say abou equall for both of them, since males could get more turned on by it while females could look sexier due to it.
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