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Old 06-30-2013, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Boston hasn't been any better?
Definitely better, but I'm still working on my trust issues...that's all on me though.
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Old 07-01-2013, 12:06 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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Wish I had someone to cheat on. Let me think back now if I got what I deserved in the long run..As a young guy I did "cheat" - I remember my live in lover were at a woman's house drinking..My girl fell asleep...the woman of the house - pushed a button and a book shelf swung open like a door...to a little bedroom...I disappeared into the wall with the lady..and returned - My sleeping lover was none the wiser.

Sometimes I would two time woman...My greatest regret was getting involved with two woman..who's husband was a cop and the other an airline pilot...I still feel like a rat years later for what I did with another man's wife...The strangest situation was when I moved in for a bit with two girls...One was my lover and one was not. Eventually I was having fun with both of them. Once my lover found out I was also making love to her roommate...she through me out...I was very very bad..

Now I am an old man and I say "dear God send me one more angel...so I am not alone" - It's almost as if a voice out the sky replies - No you greedy pig- you have had enough...If I could go back in time - I would fall in love and never cheat...but it was the free love era back then..but there was a price...You get old and end up alone.
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Old 07-01-2013, 12:19 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Hot Girls! Yes indeed, I do follow my wife on FaceBook.
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Old 07-01-2013, 01:11 AM
 
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Lol, seriously.



OP, so when I have a girlfriend, I need to defriend and unfollow any girls you think are hot ? How stupid.
If you're following them solely because they're hot and you think you might have a chance with them because they live in your city, then it's fishy behavior in my book. Yeah.
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Old 07-01-2013, 01:15 AM
 
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Well, it sounds like there are SOME guys on here who don't cheat. I applaud you men.

Funny thing is, after the dude tried cheating on me, I could sense he was not trustworthy and was really jealous/hyperaware of his relationships with women. Turns out my intuition was spot on. And funny how he complained to all his friends how jealous I was. AFTER he tried cheating numerous times.

Go with your gut, ladies.
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Old 07-01-2013, 01:20 AM
 
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-following hot girls on Twitter who live in your city, I think is not faithful.
-paying girls to take their clothes off on cam for you is NOT faithful.
-going on strictly platonic section of Craigslist to look for attractive girls to hang out with 'platonically' is not faithful.
-specifically going to get an 'erotic massage' is NOT faithful.

men, do you do these things? my boyfriend has done them. i have been completely faithful to him. is it too much, in reality, to expect the same level of loyalty from a man, considering that man is both attractive and has his life together financially (it seems the richer men get, and especially the more famous they are, the more likely they are to philander).
"The real woman is the woman you can admire, respect... and cheat."
It's a joke. Your boyfriend isn't faithful to you.
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Old 07-01-2013, 04:04 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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Is it fair to "cheat" if you are with a woman and you know she does not truly love you?
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Old 07-01-2013, 05:09 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Is it fair to "cheat" if you are with a woman and you know she does not truly love you?
Cheating is cheating. If you (I speak in general term here) suspect she's cheating, if you doubt her love, confront her or dump her. It is not simple.

Cheating is a bad reflection on YOUR character ONLY.

I've never been cheated on and I've never cheated. Honestly speaking, I think guys and girls should have some faith in human nature. There are a LOT Of people I know don't cheat. If you are in a monogamous relationship, being faithful is a requirement, not an option.

In real life, I only knew one person who cheated on his wife. Most of my friends are very faithful to their partners.
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Old 07-01-2013, 05:23 AM
 
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But you don't understand...he might actually have to go without sex for a few days/weeks/months before finding his next claim so why would he do that? I've known SO MANY men who would be actively sleeping with more than 1 woman just to 'test the waters' before making the breakup official.
I agree. But I think the reason women don't do this is because sex is never not available so its not necessary to have something lined up already

And For the record I don't cheat nor have I ever cheated
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Old 07-01-2013, 05:55 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Is it fair to "cheat" if you are with a woman and you know she does not truly love you?
Why not just break up with her?
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