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Old 07-02-2013, 05:15 PM
 
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I have been looking at a lot of dating sites and something I found very odd was that there are quite a few women who most guys would agree are very attractive, yet these women say that their longest relationship was less than a year. How is it possible for an attractive woman in her late 20's to never have been in a relationship? These women could get any guy they want.

 
Old 07-02-2013, 05:20 PM
 
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Maybe they haven't wanted to be in a long term relationship. Maybe they are focussing on work or school.
 
Old 07-02-2013, 05:22 PM
 
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They haven't met a guy they want yet.
 
Old 07-02-2013, 05:25 PM
 
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Just because they are beautiful doesn't make them relationship material.
Did you ever think maybe they have some serious flaws, and problems that maybe some men won't put up with just because they are beautiful? Cheating, lying, gold-digging?
 
Old 07-02-2013, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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OP, why do you think they'd want one? Focus on education, career, and dating while young can be a good thing, rather than getting tied down and possibly pregnant - freedom over. There's time for that in your late 20's and early 30's, if you want the stable long-term relationship and family scenario.
 
Old 07-02-2013, 05:50 PM
 
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They are more than likely Pyscho Wack job Stalkers
 
Old 07-02-2013, 05:50 PM
 
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OP, why do you think they'd want one?
Uh, maybe because they have the sex drive of teenaged boys?

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Old 07-02-2013, 05:58 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Just because they are beautiful doesn't make them relationship material.
Did you ever think maybe they have some serious flaws, and problems that maybe some men won't put up with just because they are beautiful? Cheating, lying, gold-digging?
I agree with the bolded part. As to the other part, if you're going to accuse them of having serious flaws, then how about maybe they were in relationships with guys who were only after them for their looks? When they discovered that, they ended the relationship, because there was nothing there of substance other than a guy who wanted arm candy for his ego.
 
Old 07-02-2013, 06:12 PM
 
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I agree with the bolded part. As to the other part, if you're going to accuse them of having serious flaws, then how about maybe they were in relationships with guys who were only after them for their looks? When they discovered that, they ended the relationship, because there was nothing there of substance other than a guy who wanted arm candy for his ego.
I wasn't accusing, I said "maybe". I was simply pointing out another aspect of the scenario - one that had not been pointed out yet. I consider it just part of the discussion - just a "thought"
But, your second part of the post is a good point. The OP is just basing things on looks - and is perhaps a good reason why they have not had one - someone just bases them on their looks alone, and does not want that. I totally agree with you there.
 
Old 07-02-2013, 06:16 PM
 
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I also want to say I agree with the PP who said that another reason could be that it's a fake profile. I knew a guy who recently was on a social media site and got friend requests from fake profiles that were made for phishing. He is a bit niave about these things and really thought they were real people, because the fake profiles found him through mutual friends - and he thought if one of his friends were already friends with the person, they must be legit. It just never occured to him they would be fake. You just never know online anymore, they may not even be real.

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