So i just got rejected? What is the best move? (dating, women)
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So i go to a commuter college. I think this girl likes me. I suggested we hang out during the summer, she said yes. I suggested we go watch a movie and she also said yes. All with smiley faces
Alright so today at 2 i txt'ed her saying if she wanted to go tomorrow
Then at 6 she txt'ed me saying
she could'nt and that she has some plans and put this emotioncon :/
So i am thinking of 3 possible reasons why she said this
1. Maybe she is in fact busy, perhaps she is going out with her family since it is July 4,or maybe they did not let her out becase it is July 4 lol. Or maybe she is going out with friends.
2. Maybe she is testing me, perhaps she wants to know if i am indeed interested. Or maybe she is just pretending to be busy to appear busy.
3. Or maybe she is just flat out rejecting me
Right the time is 8:30. She txt'ed me 2 hours ago. What should i say back?
Should i tell her
" I really do want to hang out this weekend. Its cool"
To see what are her true intentions, and perhaps maybe she can suggest another day?
I think she has plans. It's July 4. You can't ask someone to go to a movie on a major holiday.
Just text her back and say, "Well, have fun. We'll try another time."
Then try again for next weekend.
PS You didn't just "get rejected." She is BUSY. "Rejected" means she wants nothing to do with you. People who reject you don't text you with smiley faces.
She may not know that you're trying to date her. She may think you're just being friends. I suggest using the word "date" when you ask her out and don't do it last minute.
Look here fella. If you want to set up a date, its a good idea to call and talk, not text. That gives you a chance to visit, ask how she's doing, etc. Give her a chance to talk about herself, you listen and it tells her you care about her as a person. Then you ask for a date and give her some options as far as date and time, but have something specific in mind, like a movie or lunch. It gives her consideration that she has a life, and may already have other plans, with friends. Sorry to sound old fashioned but texting is very cold.
If you don't want to date her, then why are you contacting her?
I hate holidays, because interferes with the dating lol
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I bet she can answer your questions.
