Divorce (married, love, call, friend)

[lifesprecious09]

Im going through a divorce with no support. Esp on a day like today
A few of my so call friends didnt even care to check up on me.

The world is so cruel or maybe im just in my feelings but divorce is really
Painful

One min im ok next min im breaking down.
How can I overcome the pain??

[yankeegirl313]

Try to keep yourself busy!

[raveabouttoast]

Give a close friend of yours a call. They won't be thinking of you 24/7. They have their own lives to worry about. But if they're good friends, they'll listen and help if you reach out to them.

[SD4020]

There is life after divorce. It takes time to heal. It takes time to adjust. Find activites to do, find new adventures.

[erjunkee]

Aww, I'll be praying for you, sweetie.

I pray that God will help your broken, aching heart, and will surround you with people you love, with those who love you in return, and will give you unconditional support during this time.

I cannot empathize w/what you're going through b/c I've never been married, but I do know that even in some of my darkest moments, I often felt like those I was closest to were no where to be found. It hurt very, very badly. There's no shame in reaching out to those who love you. I agree that often times, people have so many other things going on in their own personal lives that it may be difficult to reach out unless they make you a #1 priority.

I urge you to call someone you're very close to and get the support you need right now.

I'll be praying for you. Hugs to you, dear.

[Yellow Jacket]

We all make mistakes. Divorce is simply the result of a mistake.

[prettygreeneyes]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

Try to keep yourself busy!

This..... Don't always count on others as they too have their lives to live. Occupy yourself and you'll move through this phase with ease.
Good luck.

[lifesprecious09]

I dont see it as a mistake but as a lesson I needed to learn

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by lifesprecious09

I dont see it as a mistake but as a lesson I needed to learn

Yup.

The other way to look at is is a legal acknowledgment that there is no marriage, it is the termination of a business transaction.

[Lilac110]

So sorry, Life.

It sounds trite, but try to look forward at all the opportunities and freedom you have to pursue those opportunities. Not so much romantically, but in life in general--hobbies, travel, friends, clubs, interests. Your world is filled with possibility now. You can go where you want, spend your money how you want, do with your spare time what you want. It gets better. I promise.