Guys, cuddling for the sake of cuddling (sleeping, different, relations)
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When I was young and dumb I looked forward to the affection of being hugged but it never endured as long as I had wished it would.
Now that I have been thuroughly trained not to need female attention or affection, I reallly don't want it.
I'll give a lite hug on demand but nothing more than that.
That only happens may be once a day or so , and that's just an acquaintence.
[/b]More cuddling equals better relationship IMO. Of course, some people like to cuddle, so lots of cuddling doesn't always equal good relationship.
Below is an example of an extreme cuddler where they're on different pages. I somewhat agree that I think touch is important in a relationship.
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Originally Posted by stepka
I went out on a few dates last summer with a man who was totally into cuddling and that's all he wanted to do for the most part and he was a pan-cuddler (made that word up) which means he loved to cuddle with anyone and everyone. I decided not to continue dating him but before I stopped, he asked to spend the night one night. I wasn't ready for the dirty deed with him so I told him that only if he wouldn't pressure me for sex, which he promised not to do. Oh Lord what a night--he wrapped himself around me like a pretzel and never let go. He'd start to snore so I'd try to work myself out of the embrace but he would just hold on tighter. Finally I got up "to go to the bathroom" but really ended up on the couch and I swear, he came and got me! That was one long night and I don't think I could be with someone like that. I do love to cuddle but not to that extent.
The take away is like anything else, it isn't as simple as you're either cuddler or you're not, there's many different levels of intensity. To break this down, we'll exclude cuddling for the 15 minutes after sex.
Here are the some questions for those who are into cuddling
Cuddle longer than 15mins after sex?
Cuddle when sleeping?
Cuddle when sex isn't going to happen?
Cuddle in public?
Here are the some questions for those who are into cuddling
Cuddle longer than 15mins after sex?
Cuddle when sleeping?
Cuddle when sex isn't going to happen?
Cuddle in public?
I don't think we cuddled longer than 15 minutes after sex. I never paid that much attention to the time.
We would cuddle when sleeping, but then roll away from each other so we had our own space and breathing room. It can just get too warm against each other. I don't sleep in one place for long before I'm rolling over anyway.
I'd cuddle with him anytime. I loved how he felt.
Cuddle in public? I'm not sure what that means. Do you mean on a blanket in the park? Probably not.
Holding hands and an occasional hug, yes. Anything to show him that I loved him.
So all my guy friends say that they like to cuddle if they're really into a girl, and even then it's not something that's really important to them. I know every guy is different, but a while ago I was in a FWB situation, and the guy just loved to cuddle. My ex-boyfriends didnt even cuddle with me like he did. We would do the deed, and then for the rest of the entire night he would just cuddle with me which I always found so odd for a guy to do, especially cause I'm not really into cuddling myself...I mean it's ok for a little while, but the entire night? c'mon!!
Anyway just wondering how many of you guys just like cuddling for the sake of cuddling? Or do you have to be really into the girl?
I like to cuddle and kiss which is what I am on the hunt for right now. LOL
Cuddling and nothing more is just DULL
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