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IT'S ALL ABOUT IDDY...NO CHURCH WEDDING FOR ME ...NO NICE DATES FOR ME ...NO GIFTS FOR ME
If you're not a troll then me say thi--you're a selfish person and apparently there's something mentally wrong with you if you'd want a 50 year old alcoholic virgin who lives with his mother rather than being part of a child's life. Whatever you do, don't have kids because you'd screw them mentally anyway.
(drops the mic..I'm outta here)
That's the whole point really.^^^^^
She had a HUGE post once on how a guy who was married before wouldn't want to have a wedding, go on a honeymoon, have a big reception... etc., etc.
It was all about she would never be the first in a bunch of things. She has a very insecure view of being with a man.
BUT, now she has found a man where he cannot compare her to any other women.... AND that is why she is so happy.... well, except his mom. She won't give him up..... she knows how hard it is to find a man who's never had a girlfriend before.
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Because he's Catholic, has no kids, and is not fat or divorced. Alcoholism and living with his parents in his 40s are just minor things compared to the horrible, terrible, lethal flaws of belonging to another faith, having a child, carrying 20 extra pounds, or, heaven forfend, not sticking it out in a miserable marriage with a cheating wife.
WTH!!!
Catholics can be alcoholics??!
No...wait!!! Doesn't a guy who lives at home at 40 tell you that you will be the provider and strong link in this relationship??
Something inside YOU is lacking to think you will help the poor 40 year old man to get out of Mummy's house and fly.
I'd make a great MOM but playing a step mom without playing a mom? nope, why would I? why spend my money on kids not mine who I can't be a mom too?
Because you love their father. Because you also love them. Because you form a bond with them and love them as your own.
My ex bfs twins were just like my own. Their mom wasn't around and we all lived in the same house, the twins, their dad, and I.
I cared for them as they were my own. I took them to church, I took them to the movies, I took them to their friends. I met their girlfriends and gfs family.
I took them to school, I met their teachers, etc, etc.
I loved them like they were my own and while they are no longer with me, I carry a special place in my heart for them. They are growing up now and have both graduated and are becoming fine young men.
They are now with their mother which is an absolute wonderful things and they are doing great. I am so happy for them.
You do these things because you love their father, and they are an extension of him.
You are greedy. It is all about you, you, you, and that is why you wouldn't make a good step mother, and why I think it is a great idea that you don't want to be with a single father!
Because you love their father. Because you also love them. Because you form a bond with them and love them as your own.
My ex bfs twins were just like my own. Their mom wasn't around and we all lived in the same house, the twins, their dad, and I.
I cared for them as they were my own. I took them to church, I took them to the movies, I took them to their friends. I met their girlfriends and gfs family.
I took them to school, I met their teachers, etc, etc.
I loved them like they were my own and while they are no longer with me, I carry a special place in my heart for them. They are growing up now and have both graduated and are becoming fine young men.
They are now with their mother which is an absolute wonderful things and they are doing great. I am so happy for them.
You do these things because you love their father, and they are an extension of him.
You are greedy. It is all about you, you, you, and that is why you wouldn't make a good step mother, and why I think it is a great idea that you don't want to be with a single father!
But the thing is you have kids, so for parents it's an equal situation. For me it wouldn't be because yes it's about me. After all I will be supporting his kids and possibly his ex-wife and what do I get in return? being denied what I want. The ex will always be in the picture and I can't handle that, nor do I want to. If a guy was a single dad and no mom in the picture it's a different story and could handle that, I can't handle dealing with the drama of an ex.
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...NO NICE DATES FOR ME 
