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All the women on this forum say it does, but why am I not observing this in real life? I don't think my observations are biased in any way.
The guys I know who are best with women:
Guy #1. Big ego, very fake-nice and fake-humble around women. His guy friends all think he's a d-bag. Below average in looks. Doesn't attract super hot women, but plays remarkably well above his league.
Guy #2. Laid back, fun. He is, however, considered hot by many women. No doubt his looks are what is going for him.
Guy #3. Basically the same as Guy #2, except even better looking. I'm pretty sure he could be a male model.
Some women set a certain standard and they stick to it. And some probaly dont pay it a lot of attention.
Yes personality matters. So does just being a nice guy. If you're going to go after the all star type women who know they're hot stuff, you're going to keep feeling this way. Maybe it's the women you're going after. Just like frog guy said, maybe your going after "ugly"women who wear a beautiful mask.
Personality does matter, but i find it's not on top of the list for women; somewhere in the middle
Depends on what you mean by "initial attraction." Are you thinking along the lines of the way a bee is attracted to a beautiful flower that offers the promise of a lot of pollen?
Because once the guy opens his mouth, then attraction can suddenly cease, just as a pitcher flower or a venus flytrap can destroy a dumb flying insect.
I often wonder if GlitteringPrize ever reads or acknowledges any of the responses he gets here, or if he has conditioned himself to only accept the diseased ideas of male-dominated Internet forums?
Clearly he takes none of his cues from actual real people.
Depends on what you mean by "initial attraction." Are you thinking along the lines of the way a bee is attracted to a beautiful flower t offers the promise of a lot of pollen?
Because once the guy opens his mouth, then attraction can suddenly cease, just as a pitcher flower or a venus flytrap can destroy a dumb flying insect.
I often wonder if GlitteringPrize ever reads or acknowledges any of the responses he gets here, or if he has conditioned himself to only accept the diseased ideas of male-dominated Internet forums?
Clearly he takes none of his cues from actual real people.
I don't think I can buy into the whole "If he speaks like an idiot, no matter how attractive he looks I'll write him off." thing.
I can't discount the things I've seen with the friends I've had in the past and the guy I'm friends with currently. This guy is probably the same guy you're describing. Doesn't know current events, can't carry a conversation to save his life, can only talk about himself and how he eats, his hair style, tooth paste(and his teeth), how long he spends tanning, his work out routine and bits and pieces of some hobbies, and he runs through a different woman every week. Yeah, some were just like him, but there's been a number of women who were very intelligent, whom I thought would be into a guy who had similar interests or could at least...be interesting.
I guess he might be more of an acquaintance than a friend, but I see him a few times a week along with his musical chair girl, and we have what I guess I'd call conversation. Let's just say that he's not all there...yeah.
I don't think I can buy into the whole "If he speaks like an idiot, no matter how attractive he looks I'll write him off." thing.
I can't discount the things I've seen with the friends I've had in the past and the guy I'm friends with currently. This guy is probably the same guy you're describing. Doesn't know current events, can't carry a conversation to save his life, can only talk about himself and how he eats, his hair style, tooth paste(and his teeth), how long he spends tanning, his work out routine and bits and pieces of some hobbies, and he runs through a different woman every week. Yeah, some were just like him, but there's been a number of women who were very intelligent, whom I thought would be into a guy who had similar interests or could at least...be interesting.
I guess he might be more of an acquaintance than a friend, but I see him a few times a week along with his musical chair girl, and we have what I guess I'd call conversation. Let's just say that he's not all there...yeah.
So it's safe to guess that the women grow tired of him after a little while, and he has to find a new one ? Or does he always dump them ?
So it's safe to guess that the women grow tired of him after a little while, and he has to find a new one ? Or does he always dump them ?
It's not a safe guess.
I've ran into some of the women he's had, and they've told me that he treated her like sh*t, but he was so hot and a combination of amazing in bed and his body looked so good that they simply ignored everything else and believed what was happening was becoming something real in terms of forming a relationship. Then at some point during that week he tells her to GTFO and he's tired of her, and then he goes out and finds another woman.
I've only met a few of these women, but there stories are all similar, so there has to be an element of truth to there stories.
I'd say that if he's done this for a long time, he can't be batting 1.000 in terms of he always breaking up, but he never says who breaks up with who, it's usually "this is my new girl, X!"
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