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Yeah, I know, I'm just doing one of my Quarterly Troll posts. But come to think of if, my last one was in April, I think. So maybe I do a troll thread once every three months instead of Quarterly.
I am simply like an alien on this planet, not able to form any connections with any human beings because I am too different, and have too abrasive a personality.
I don't have an abrasive personality and I'm still just as single as you are, so I feel your pain even if our situations are probably different. At least you seem to have a decent grasp on why women avoid you, whereas I still haven't figured that out yet.
I don't have an abrasive personality and I'm still just as single as you are, so I feel your pain even if our situations are probably different. At least you seem to have a decent grasp on why women avoid you, whereas I still haven't figured that out yet.
And, really, you choose your behavior. How you fare in life is up to you.
Some aspects of behavior are changeable, but some aspects are permanent. I have many annoying qualities that are permanent, I believe. Maybe it's because I refuse to change them, but I think in some cases refusal to change is involuntary.
There is no point in my asking advice on this forum, because none of you can understand my thoughts and my reasons for giving up completely on ever dating in my life.
You can't understand that I know that I am basically unlovable and even if some woman gave me a chance, she'd soon grow tired of me and move on. Therefore, there is no point in even trying to find a girlfriend, because it would never last. There's no point in going through the pain of rejection, because it would all be for nothing, because I know that there is no chance of me ever having a lasting and positive relationship.
I am simply like an alien on this planet, not able to form any connections with any human beings because I am too different, and have too abrasive a personality. And my condition is permanent because it is my nature. So, there is not point in trying "to change" or "improve" or any of that sort of stuff that's always thrown at me. I'm always going to be the way I am and that's all there is to it.
There are many times that I "wish" I could be different, "wish" I could be normal, "wish" I could love a woman ... but then I catch myself, and say, no, I am who I am, and that is a Rock and an Island.
You're what you make your mind up to be. There is nothing external that is forcing you to do anything. It's all coming from within and you CAN change anything you want to change. The problem is that you don't WANT to be different. There is no shame in that. But quit whining about it.
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