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Ok so this might sound a bit vain but here it goes:
Since I can remember men have mostly referred to me as sexy vs. pretty, cute, beautiful, etc. For instance, last night I bumped to a guy I haven't seen in years ( he used to date my best friend) and one of the first things he said to me was "you're still as sexy as ever" and I doubt he was hitting on me, he's married. But that's when I realized men always refer to me as sexy rather than anything else. I don't dress provocatively, I am curvy but I don't wear tight clothing or anything so I just don't get it. I liked being referred to as sexy when I was in my early twenties but now that I'm in my early thirties I feel like men don't take me seriously in relationships because of this. I mean within the past 10 years almost every guy I dated the relationship ended up revolving around sex (if it got to that), and I doubt it has anything to with how long I'm waiting to have sex, because I have waited everywhere between a couple of dates to a couple of months.
IDK maybe I'm just being paranoid, or do you guys think there maybe something to this?
Hey! Being called sexy, beats the hell outta being called Fugly, ugly!
You are what you put out there to be! End of story.
Of course it beats being called ugly, and it's definitely nice to hear from time to time, but when it's the only physical compliment you get, you start to wonder.
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