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This. All you want to do is lose your virginity with no strings attached so rather than go through all the convolutions of dating and worrying about what she might be after and what you should seek to avoid, just find a professional and get it over and done with. It's like learning to drive a car - you ride along with a professional for a while until you know what you're doing behind the wheel and then you go out on your own and start to learn about and appreciate the finer details of what's under the hood.
That would suck... try to finally lose your virginity only for her to drop the P-Bomb. Imagine you're were ignored or just plain unlucky and the day you waited your life for that moment everyone else did nonchalantly in their teens and 20s ended it total epic failure in a few weeks.
I get that your 30s you're technically supposed to buckle down and get responsible, but you don't get to enjoy trying other partners, or making up for all that missed/denied opportunity and you feel you're already behind the times as it is as far as sex is concerned.
It never happened to me in college, then I had an accident my mid 20s and was down and out for a while.
Here I am in my early 30s and still a virgin. I plan to lose it soon, as I've got some forthcoming dates scheduled with different girls.
My question to you guys is: what should I be wary of? How would some girls try to take advantage of an older virgin like me? I plan to play around with girls for a while before considering anything long term. Should I go for younger girls who are less inclined to sucker me into marriage or anything long-term?
I think you are entering in to this in the wrong frame of mind. Women are not out there waiting to take advantage of you (seriously?) or force you into marriage. You have control over who you wish you date or not date, who you wish to become serious with, or one day, who you will marry. Just relax, don't be pushy regarding sex, just let it happen when it feels right for you both, and use condoms even if the women is on birth control.
You might want to drop the suspicion of being used or tricked by "girls" for starters. If they were all after you and as willing to have sex with you as you seem to think you wouldn't be a 30+ y/virgin.
Do you have any women friends that would help you out?
It never happened to me in college, then I had an accident my mid 20s and was down and out for a while.
Here I am in my early 30s and still a virgin. I plan to lose it soon, as I've got some forthcoming dates scheduled with different girls.
My question to you guys is: what should I be wary of? How would some girls try to take advantage of an older virgin like me? I plan to play around with girls for a while before considering anything long term. Should I go for younger girls who are less inclined to sucker me into marriage or anything long-term?
Drink vodka, be brave, be a real man and don't forget to wear a helmet on your soldier.
I think you are too immature to have sex yet. You're in your early 30's... there is no virgin age limit only that implemented by a sex crazed society. 30's is when you think about having a family, not banging around or scheduling sex deflowerr dates. So try your luck with 'women' they won't care if you are a virgin or not and it might be better for you in the end cause younger girls are even more immature than you appear to be.
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Originally Posted by as23623
Hey guys,
It never happened to me in college, then I had an accident my mid 20s and was down and out for a while.
Here I am in my early 30s and still a virgin. I plan to lose it soon, as I've got some forthcoming dates scheduled with different girls.
My question to you guys is: what should I be wary of? How would some girls try to take advantage of an older virgin like me? I plan to play around with girls for a while before considering anything long term. Should I go for younger girls who are less inclined to sucker me into marriage or anything long-term?
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