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I think the only thing that makes me bitter about dating is how i can never be perfect, i will always have short comings that ppl will always use against me.
It's not even perfection for me..but the fact that I have physical problems that I *know* most men will reject me based off of. I think I have so many small imperfections that potential partners just write me off, when if I only had one or two it would be fine...but add them all up and it's just not attractive anymore.
I try to go out every 10 days. That's when I get "edgy". I guess, I need a girlfriend, but that won't happen for a few more months. Until then, I will refrain from getting too involved.
Don't blame you. Wait for the right moment or segment of time. Good luck!
It's not even perfection for me..but the fact that I have physical problems that I *know* most men will reject me based off of. I think I have so many small imperfections that potential partners just write me off, when if I only had one or two it would be fine...but add them all up and it's just not attractive anymore.
But it's mostly my messed up stomach, surgery scars etc. that deter most guys. They seem to really dig me until they see me even partially naked...which is really depressing.
I'm on the cusp of Generations X and Y(aka Millennials) and like a lot of guys I tend to date women who are younger than myself. Sometimes it seems like they come from a different planet. A lot just seem to be flaky and self-absorbed and I'm getting less and less tolerant of certain personality flaws.
But it's mostly my messed up stomach, surgery scars etc. that deter most guys. They seem to really dig me until they see me even partially naked...which is really depressing.
They are really crappy people then. I have a buda(wanna rub it?) Stretch marks. A big ol' arse. And I'm working on it. But you can't help that. Stupid jerks.
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