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Old 07-09-2013, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Broward County, FL
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There's this girl I've been seeing for the last 3 months...let me summarize this as easy as possible. We started off as f*ck buddies (originally our relationship wasn't supposed to be serious) but we ended getting feelings for each other and started dating. Let me explain some of the things she does:

-Always makes me breakfast whenever I come over to her house

-Brings me lunch to work quite often

-Looks at me googly eyed, and whenever I have something wrong with my face or something she always takes it off my face or hair, etc (like something a mom would do)

-Expresses concern over my health

-Talk to me all day, text me "good morning sweetie" and good night every day

- Not exactly afraid to show affection in public with me, though at time rejects it.

- Mentioned me to all her coworkers and friends

-Tells me deep, dark secrets that she's told me she doesn't even tell her best friend

- Told me she loved me one time...I could tell she didn't mean to say it, it kinda slipped out of her but was thinking it....


Thoughts? The only reason I ask is because I might be falling for her too...
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:32 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I'd say the chances are good you two are falling for each other, congrats!
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:34 PM
 
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I just realized the girl I'm with doesn't love me at all
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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There's this girl I've been seeing for the last 3 months...let me summarize this as easy as possible. We started off as f*ck buddies (originally our relationship wasn't supposed to be serious) but we ended getting feelings for each other and started dating. Let me explain some of the things she does:

-Always makes me breakfast whenever I come over to her house

-Brings me lunch to work quite often

-Looks at me googly eyed, and whenever I have something wrong with my face or something she always takes it off my face or hair, etc (like something a mom would do)

-Expresses concern over my health

-Talk to me all day, text me "good morning sweetie" and good night every day

- Not exactly afraid to show affection in public with me, though at time rejects it.

- Mentioned me to all her coworkers and friends

-Tells me deep, dark secrets that she's told me she doesn't even tell her best friend

- Told me she loved me one time...I could tell she didn't mean to say it, it kinda slipped out of her but was thinking it....


Thoughts? The only reason I ask is because I might be falling for her too...
How very very sweet..

Yes, she is falling for you, and please let her know you are falling for her too.
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:35 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I'd say the chances are good you two are falling for each other, congrats!
Sex does tend to have that effect on people...
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:36 PM
 
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sex does tend to have that effect on people...
lol
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I just realized the girl I'm with doesn't love me at all
Why, because she's not doing the things our OP's girl is doing?
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:39 PM
 
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Why, because she's not doing the things our OP's girl is doing?
Yep...
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Broward County, FL
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That's great to know , the reason I ask is because me and her recently broke up because she didn't want anything "serious", but she said this after we had a really, really bad fight (our first real argument) so I'm thinking she said that out of impulse and heat of the moment type of thing....thoughts? Just on Friday we went on a date and had a great time together...but had a bad argument Saturday and broke up Sunday , I really don't want to lose her and I know she cares a lot more than she says...she's told me she doesn't like showing emotion and I think this might be one of those cases. I'm thinking it was just a bad argument and I should give her a week to cool off..
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Old 07-09-2013, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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We started off as f*ck buddies (originally our relationship wasn't supposed to be serious) but we ended getting feelings for each other and started dating.
You should have right there.

Now you're screwed, and falling in love

oh well
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