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No no not at all! I'm very attractive to some Asian men. Just like some whites, blacks, and Indians.
I'm not a closeminded person. I hate hate hate stereotypes.
Raena77 - That's a refreshing thing to hear which i don't normally hear often. I think we asians are stereotyped based on the what Hollywood shows the world, with movies like american pie, etc showing our small weenie it has become hard for us to convince ladies that we can can do more than just sleep in bed. I am south asian by the way, and i owe you a cup of coffee for the complement. In case your wondering I am also quite hot.
The fact is, for a lot of people, "preference" is just a euphemism for prejudice.
A genuine preference is something both inexplicable and harmless. For example, someone may have a preference for rice, but will eat potatoes if no rice is available.
Excluding entire racial or ethnic groups from your dating pool isn't like that. Automatically rejecting members of other racial or ethnic groups is not a "preference." It suggest you harbor negative views about people who belong to that group, negative views that are so strong, you will not even consider members of that groups as individuals. That is prejudice, pure and simple.
Raena77 - That's a refreshing thing to hear which i don't normally hear often. I think we asians are stereotyped based on the what Hollywood shows the world, with movies like american pie, etc showing our small weenie it has become hard for us to convince ladies that we can can do more than just sleep in bed. I am south asian by the way, and i owe you a cup of coffee for the complement. In case your wondering I am also quite hot.
I think you need to give us some eye candy then! Raena will agree!
Raena77 - That's a refreshing thing to hear which i don't normally hear often. I think we asians are stereotyped based on the what Hollywood shows the world, with movies like american pie, etc showing our small weenie it has become hard for us to convince ladies that we can can do more than just sleep in bed. I am south asian by the way, and i owe you a cup of coffee for the complement. In case your wondering I am also quite hot.
Oh I know too well about stereotypes. My Filipina friends asked me why I dated a Asian man? They said a Asian man has such a small penis. And made jokes. I showed them a pic of my ex. And winked then said not all Asians are small. Lol
I still remember their faces.
And I'm not concerned about hot men. Haha
But thanks for the offer of a cup of Joe.
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I think you need to give us some eye candy then! Raena will agree!
I will never not take up a offer of eye candy. Lol
As unfair as it may seem...all I can say is to just keep moving and keep looking. Women will always have their preferences. Absolutely nothing you can do about that. I am a black guy that lives in an area dominated by Asians. Always present myself professionally. Get plenty of glances from the Asian ladies, but rarely if ever does it go any farther than that. Definitely a barrier there. Pretty sure you know how it works.
Don't worry about the few close-minded people. Move to a new city if you have to, but don't let a few picky women ruin your mood.
It depends on where you are as well. I was treated like a king in LA, Hawaii and Japan by Asian women. Never expected that.
[quote=Raena77;30436389]Oh I know too well about stereotypes. My Filipina friends asked me why I dated a Asian man? They said a Asian man has such a small penis. And made jokes. I showed them a pic of my ex. And winked then said not all Asians are small. Lol
I still remember their faces.
Oh I know too well about stereotypes. My Filipina friends asked me why I dated a Asian man? They said a Asian man has such a small penis. And made jokes. I showed them a pic of my ex. And winked then said not all Asians are small. Lol
I still remember their faces.
As a half-Japanese guy, I can comment on this. It is a challenge to pick up beautiful white women, especially blondes, even in Atlanta. The Southern Belles/Georgia Peaches tend to prefer white Southern gentlemen. iiwii, but challenge accepted! Maybe that's why I'm so attracted to white Southern women, especially blondes. I lived in California for awhile, and even there I was dating mostly Mexican or Asian girls, and not the stereotypical California blondes. Now Japan is where I did very well, since I look like a tall, handsome white-American to them.
As a half-Japanese guy, I can comment on this. It is a challenge to pick up beautiful white women, especially blondes, even in Atlanta. The Southern Belles/Georgia Peaches tend to prefer white Southern gentlemen. iiwii, but challenge accepted! Maybe that's why I'm so attracted to white Southern women, especially blondes. I lived in California for awhile, and even there I was dating mostly Mexican or Asian girls, and not the stereotypical California blondes. Now Japan is where I did very well, since I look like a tall, handsome white-American to them.
That's exactly what my Asian friends say about my son. "Oh he looks half white."
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