I made a big stupid mistake, he's angry. I need advice (sensitive, respect)
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What if she was with some 14 incher and a 12 incher...?
8 inches would be "the smallest" but still well above average.
So now he's dealing with a woman used to 14 inch penis men. Once again he's still the smallest and it's like a man with a 5 inch talking to a woman used to 9 inches. He's still the smallest penis. Smallest out of a controlled group is still the smallest. What man wants to hear that?
G Spot is usually only 2-3" in...As long as a guy is of average length, most girls prefer girth over length. So when you hear "small" she may referring to a roll of dimes.
Not gonna lie, probably would have left you after that lol. Sorry. We all know how sensitive men are to that. Probably shouldn't be gossiping about penisis when you're engaged, let alone when he's in the room.
My question to you is what if he had asked and she told him the truth in private?
We all agree the public thing was terrible.
The public declaration part is the whole point of this thread. How he would have reacted to being told in private is speculation but private honesty is the best policy. As long as she is not telling him in a belittling or humiliating way he should accept it as a reality and appreciate her honesty and the fact she is still wanting him to be her guy.
So long as she can accept it if he tells her she is the least physically attractive woman he has ever slept with...
OP? I don't know why, once you slipped and knew you messed up, that you didn't focus more on a course correction. So what if he's the smallest? I'd immediately set to explaining that the other guys were uncomfortably large and you never enjoyed it until you got together with a man of more reasonable size. I'd have people thinking he was the best thing that ever happened to sex. Help him save face. Not just hope he gets over it.
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