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Well yeah it is kinda true that he's on the small side but it doesn't matter to me and I really mean that. If it was a big deal to me I would not be engaged to him. I know guys are really sensitive about stuff like this. I just don't want to lose him over something incredibly stupid that I said in all of thre seconds at the party. He's a really smart guy so I know he's going to ask me all sorts of questions and I don't know if I should be honest or fib or what.
I mean, if you're engaged, it's obvious you're committed and he wouldn't be that smart if he dumped you because his penis is smaller than average. Where's the sense in that?
This is one of those "its either true, or not true" questions.
However - does being smaller mean he's the worst you've had? Does he make you feel things the other guys don't? Do you two connect sexually better than the other guys? When you talk with him - that's what you need to highlight.
Well yeah it is kinda true that he's on the small side but it doesn't matter to me and I really mean that. If it was a big deal to me I would not be engaged to him. I know guys are really sensitive about stuff like this. I just don't want to lose him over something incredibly stupid that I said in all of thre seconds at the party. He's a really smart guy so I know he's going to ask me all sorts of questions and I don't know if I should be honest or fib or what.
Say this^ to him unless you can time travel and stop yourself from saying it in the first place.
Tell him "we really need to talk about that incident at the party, I feel awful!" Then stick with the "it was a joke" angle, and say something like "People really say stupid things when they're half-drunk. I thought it would be funny, but it wasn't. And I feel horrible about it. It was SO unfair to you! Can you forgive me?"
Next time, watch how much you drink. Your engagement is at stake.
Hmm. How small is small? Five inches and a bit is about normal/average for North America ... You may be able to reassure him if he's actually in the normal range.
Anyway, he will probably get over it - mostly. After all, now that you've made this public it will get around town. No one else will date him so the only option he has left is you - that, or move to another state.
Hi everybody. I need some advice really quick please. i screwed up and I have to do something to make it right.
My guy and I have been together for a year and a half. We got engaged in April. We really are great for each other and we get along terrific.
Anyway, day before yesterday we were at a party at my best girlfriend's house. Everybody including me had drunk alot. My guy (I'll call him "Ian" but that not really his name) had a few drinks as well but not as much as me. At some point people were talking in groups and laughing and all that. The conversation in my group turned to sex and the topic of "male size" came up. My girlfriend said everybody talks about the "big ones" but not about the "small ones." She then alughed and asked me who had the smallest one in my experience. I didn't think before I opened my mouth because I answered Ian. Well Ian gave me a stuned and shocked look. I recovered and said that I was kidding but I think the damage was done. The friends ion our group sort of sobered up and left the group.
ian and I haven't discussed anything about this when we left or since. Yesterday when we left for work he had very few words to say. He later left me a voicemail that he was going to stay at his bud's place which I guess he did.
He's going to come home tonight and I really want to repair things and make good. All suggestions would be really really welcome. Thanks.
So basically you have a big f*****g mouth when you get drunk.
This is one of those "its either true, or not true" questions.
However - does being smaller mean he's the worst you've had? Does he make you feel things the other guys don't? Do you two connect sexually better than the other guys? When you talk with him - that's what you need to highlight.
True or not, joking, serious, or drunk, there are just some things you NEVER, EVER SAY OUT LOUD.
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