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i wish i could. think of how much it could help one's game
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Yes and I can tell if they are my type of person too/I will get along with them in the first 5 minutes. Some girls just turn you off from their immediate vibe even if they look good.
And, equally importantly, do you assume your date can tell right away whether they are attracted to you?
Yes physically but it takes time to really know.
I don't know at first if they really like me. They can simply be polite and friendly and you can't really tell if there is something more there yet at first.
Yes, and the date is over just like that. It doesn't happen anymore because I simply won't meet up with a woman that has anything but athletic, slender or petite on her body description. I would have no problem dating an average built girl, but apparently average means 20lbs overweight to most people online.
I've never been rejected on an online date, but I can typically tell if a woman is into me or not in most social settings, so I would think that I would know if a girl wasn't into me on an online date. I'm pretty good at not approaching or contacting women that I know are out of my league so I tend to avoid that situation.
I've met a very few guys via online dating sites, and
haven't had chemistry (attraction in either the sensory or mental realm)
with any of them offline, don't know how they felt about me
(except for one guy who kept msging me every so often, but whom I found quite off-putting).
I can tell within first few moments if I find someone immediately unappealing or intriguing, usually.
In my personal experiences, attraction can grow/build-but not if there isn't some kernel of it when first we meet.
I can almost always tell if I'm NOT attracted on a first meet or date, usually within seconds. Often I can tell that I am attracted but confirmation can take some time. Sometimes if it's indeterminate, another date or two will make it pretty certain one way or the other.
Whether or not my date is attracted to me only matters if I'm attracted to them. Sometimes they're not, and there's no point worrying about it. Next!
This is a perfect example of how it's not all about looks! Attraction can grow based on personality. Yes, even for guys (who here on C-D usually insist there has to be physical attraction from the get-go)--a 6 can become an 8 or a 9 with the right personality. Thanks for posting!
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