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Old 07-12-2013, 12:59 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I'm a woman and have had other women say essentially the same exact thing to me.

It's small talk.
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Old 07-12-2013, 01:00 PM
 
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Ive been working in this office since the beginning of the year, and there is a woman in the other dept. We don't talk much, just explain pleasantries. She's 40ish and engaged, I am 24.

Yesterday, she walked by my office and I'm pretty sure she said "Hi honey" and today she stopped by and asked "so what's MidwestGuy doing this weekend?"

What gives?
Every man always is doing the same mistake. If she smiled to him he is thinking "She loves me". If she called him "Hi honey" he is thinking: "She fell in love with me".
Don't waste your chance but don't be too naive.
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Old 07-12-2013, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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"so what's MidwestGuy doing this weekend?"
should have said cougar hunting
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Old 07-12-2013, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Hartford CT
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Any man who wonders why women appear to be stand offish or stuck up and anti-social this is the reason why. A person cannot even ask a simple question, without someone wondering what her true intentions are.
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Old 07-12-2013, 01:10 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I'm a woman and have had other women say essentially the same exact thing to me.

It's small talk.
lol! No, no, it means they wanted to start a gay relationship with you, because they're secretly bi, and they figure that it's not cheating if it's with the same gender. Boy, are you naive! The OP could teach you a thing or two!



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Old 07-12-2013, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles, CA
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"honey," "sweetie," "buddy," all the same thing. Sounds about right for a 40 year old to say to you.
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Old 07-12-2013, 01:16 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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i've mentioned my cougar before
um...ok. So ... why are you looking for another one? Kinda fixated on 'em, arentcha?

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Old 07-12-2013, 01:18 PM
 
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Was she touching you while she said it? If so, then she is hitting on you. If not, then she is not.
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Old 07-12-2013, 01:25 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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i've mentioned my cougar before
Wait.................


This isn't the whiner from Chicago (who's posted on another forum that he's from Florida) who can't get a gf his age, is it? The car salesman? What was his name? The age matches up (except on the other site you said you were 29)......
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Old 07-12-2013, 02:15 PM
 
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Wait.................


This isn't the whiner from Chicago (who's posted on another forum that he's from Florida) who can't get a gf his age, is it? The car salesman? What was his name? The age matches up (except on the other site you said you were 29)......
Brahmabull!!!!
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