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Old 07-17-2013, 02:33 AM
 
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Guys, when you like a girl will you sometimes ask for advices about how to approach her to a girl friend ? Or do you only ask guy friends, or nobody... Are there situations in which you would discuss it with a guy, or on the contrary a girl ...? Like, do you only mention it with guy friends (and joke about it maybe) when you only feel physically attracted and would like to let's say "have fun with her", but would rather confess it to a good girl friend if you have a genuine interest in her and in need of serious advices ? What does it mean if you ask a girl friend how to talk to her, approach her, does it mean it is kind of serious to you then ?

I'm curious about how guys deal with "liking" a girl and how you discuss or don't discuss it with people around you... I know what us girls do, but guys... mistery

Thanks !
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Old 07-17-2013, 02:42 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I don't discuss such things.
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Old 07-17-2013, 02:56 AM
 
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I am talking with myself.
And I can tell my brother about it but nobody more.
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Old 07-17-2013, 06:43 AM
 
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I assume most adult men would tell the woman herself...by asking her out.

Are you talking about high school crushes?
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Old 07-17-2013, 11:58 PM
 
Location: Pa
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They like talk to other boys and some stuff.
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Old 07-18-2013, 04:50 AM
 
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If I had to ask for advice, I would ask both guy friends and girl friends. Really doesn't matter.
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Old 07-18-2013, 05:13 AM
 
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If I had to ask for advice, I would ask both guy friends and girl friends. Really doesn't matter.
Hell no. Never ask for advice on a girl that you haven't asked out yet. Some of them will back stab you and get there first. Never again.
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Old 07-18-2013, 08:37 AM
 
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Guys, when you like a girl will you sometimes ask for advices about how to approach her to a girl friend ? Or do you only ask guy friends, or nobody... Are there situations in which you would discuss it with a guy, or on the contrary a girl ...? Like, do you only mention it with guy friends (and joke about it maybe) when you only feel physically attracted and would like to let's say "have fun with her", but would rather confess it to a good girl friend if you have a genuine interest in her and in need of serious advices ? What does it mean if you ask a girl friend how to talk to her, approach her, does it mean it is kind of serious to you then ?

I'm curious about how guys deal with "liking" a girl and how you discuss or don't discuss it with people around you... I know what us girls do, but guys... mistery

Thanks !
You don't need to talk to other people when you have City-Data Forum.
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Old 07-18-2013, 05:05 PM
 
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I'm so glad this aspect of society is changing .

I saw two guys, maybe 15, walking down the street the other day and discussing the relationship one of them had with a girl -- talking the way two girls would, or the way my guy friends talk with me -- in depth, and about feelings and stuff, not bragging.

Did my elderly heart good .
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Old 07-18-2013, 05:41 PM
 
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guys are smart this way-we talk to other dating experts that havent had a date in years
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