Cute waitress asked if friends kids were mine (women, children, college)
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Met up with a good friend and her toddler kids for a breakfast this morning. Got to the restaurant a lil early and was helped by a beautiful waitress with a great smile. We exchanged glances often and she was really very sweet. My friend and her kids arrive and my focus shifts! After we finish eating, my friends runs her daughter out to the car to change and leaves her son with me. As soon as my friend walks out the cute waitress walks up and smiles.. Asks if they are mine. I reply that they are not, im just really good friends with their mother. She smiles and continues on! Shift changed and I didn't see her after that. My question is... Was she just being sweet or does that sound like an indicator of interest? I'm gonna head down again this week with a buddy and ask her out anyways lol, but was wondering about the questioning if they were my kids. If she wasn't interested wouldn't she just assume they were mine?
Met up with a good friend and her toddler kids for a breakfast this morning. Got to the restaurant a lil early and was helped by a beautiful waitress with a great smile. We exchanged glances often and she was really very sweet. My friend and her kids arrive and my focus shifts! After we finish eating, my friends runs her daughter out to the car to change and leaves her son with me. As soon as my friend walks out the cute waitress walks up and smiles.. Asks if they are mine. I reply that they are not, im just really good friends with their mother. She smiles and continues on! Shift changed and I didn't see her after that. My question is... Was she just being sweet or does that sound like an indicator of interest? I'm gonna head down again this week with a buddy and ask her out anyways lol, but was wondering about the questioning if they were my kids. If she wasn't interested wouldn't she just assume they were mine?
Could go either way, but based on what you have stated. She has interest and see's that you're good with kids. Men who are good with kids tend to attract more women than those who aren't. Take a chance, heck why not give it a shot. & If she smiles, i think it's an indicator. Otherwise, why would she have asked?
It's not like there is some agreed upon question that women ask to show their interest. Some people are friendly. Some people are showing interest. It's impossible for us to know which it is because we weren't there. If you are interested in her - just ask her out.
It's not like there is some agreed upon question that women ask to show their interest. Some people are friendly. Some people are showing interest. It's impossible for us to know which it is because we weren't there. If you are interested in her - just ask her out.
But it would be sooo much easier if there was an agreed question that women could ask to show interest! =) I guess I already know the answer.. Just wanted to pick everyone's brains!!
Many times people ask about kids so they can talk about their own kids. My guess is that she was just making conversation, but if you want to ask her out there's no harm in it.
Go ahead and ask her out. There are only 2 possible results of that: she will agree or she will say no.
But just because a waitress smiles at a man or makes a comments about his children does not mean she has the hots for him. All it means is that she is doing her job and working for her tips.
Go by yourself, that will be the best indicator.
Girls of all kinds used to smile at me on my walking route around a local college campus..............turns out it was because of the dog.
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