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Old 08-06-2013, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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In the reverse - when I was almost 18 I was a virgin and had my first experience with an experienced non-virgin...I was a popular kid with the girls but never had actual sex...This young woman assumed because I hung out with a lot of females that I was some sort of super stud...but no I was a virgin. When I finally made love to this young woman- she said " You are sooooo good...it must be from the practice you had with all those other girls"....Well - I just shut up and did not say a thing- I never told her she was the first.

Whether you are male of female others do not have to know if you are a virgin or not.
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Old 08-06-2013, 04:23 PM
 
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i wouldn't care...and at 20 years old i wouldn't be interested in having sex with her in the first place.
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Old 08-06-2013, 04:27 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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She posted a similar thread in June:


https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...hink-22-a.html
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Old 01-26-2019, 01:08 PM
 
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I only want a virgin... anything else is another man's wife... I'm not into sharing... will you use another person's worn underwear or toothbrush? If you can't be faithful before marriage... do you think you will be after you get a piece of paper saying your married?
Sex is marriage...
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Old 01-26-2019, 02:25 PM
 
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I only want a virgin... anything else is another man's wife... I'm not into sharing... will you use another person's worn underwear or toothbrush? If you can't be faithful before marriage... do you think you will be after you get a piece of paper saying your married?
Sex is marriage...
Whoa! So anyone who's had a previous partner is just "used underwear"? Wow, I'll tell my wife of 30 years that because she wasn't a virgin when we married, I was basically picking up up someone else's "used underwear". Or, maybe I won't do that after all. Something tells me it might not go so well.


Or, maybe, does this only apply to women? Hmmmmmm?


Hey buddy, the sixteenth century called and you need to go back home now.
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Old 01-26-2019, 02:36 PM
 
Location: Columbia SC
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Guys if you would meet a girl who is let's say above 20 years old, pretty face, attractive body, but still a virgin, not because of religious reasons... just because she doesn't want to give it away for someone she doesn't love or who doesn't care about her (and knowing that she doesn't want to wait until marriage).... How would you react ? Would you be creeped out or excited/honored ? Would you like to "teach" her, or prefer a more experienced girl ?

Thanks !
I would have loved to deflower/teach her but I would not marry her before doing so.
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Old 01-26-2019, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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I would think she has morals and self respect.

I also would think of her to be a rare find and someone I'd want to be with long term.
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Old 01-26-2019, 04:14 PM
 
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Jeez people please let dormant threads lie and only bump if you have something useful to add or piggyback with.
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Old 01-26-2019, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Sex is a normal, joyful part of adult relationships. Someone who sees virginity as something not to be "given away" sounds like someone with a pretty old-fashioned, uptight attitude about sex. Probably not someone I would be compatible with.
Not something to give away or throw away, nor something to cling to.
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Old 01-26-2019, 04:45 PM
 
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I only want a virgin... anything else is another man's wife... I'm not into sharing... will you use another person's worn underwear or toothbrush? If you can't be faithful before marriage... do you think you will be after you get a piece of paper saying your married?
Sex is marriage...
Oh really? What happens when you marry her and she refuses to do what you like in bed?
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