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Old 08-06-2013, 03:28 PM
 
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Guys if you would meet a girl who is let's say above 20 years old, pretty face, attractive body, but still a virgin, not because of religious reasons... just because she doesn't want to give it away for someone she doesn't love or who doesn't care about her (and knowing that she doesn't want to wait until marriage).... How would you react ? Would you be creeped out or excited/honored ? Would you like to "teach" her, or prefer a more experienced girl ?

Thanks !
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Old 08-06-2013, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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Unless you have a sign around your neck saying you're a virgin, most guys wouldn't react in any way.
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Old 08-06-2013, 03:35 PM
 
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Guys if you would meet a girl who is let's say above 20 years old, pretty face, attractive body, but still a virgin, not because of religious reasons... just because she doesn't want to give it away for someone she doesn't love or who doesn't care about her (and knowing that she doesn't want to wait until marriage).... How would you react ? Would you be creeped out or excited/honored ? Would you like to "teach" her, or prefer a more experienced girl ?

Thanks !
It's a non-issue for me.

I don't understand people who make such a big fuss over someone else's sexual experience. If a woman told me she was a virgin and she is in her 30s, I'd be like,

Okay.

But everyone is like "Oh my God, it's a flesh eating virgin!!! Run!!!


We can be such retards.


However... (Refrains from saying something contradictory and hypocritical)
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Old 08-06-2013, 03:38 PM
 
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I don't think people generally care.

I think it's usually the high school, or super religious crowd that makes a fuss.
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Old 08-06-2013, 03:44 PM
 
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Guys if you would meet a girl who is let's say above 20 years old, pretty face, attractive body, but still a virgin, not because of religious reasons... just because she doesn't want to give it away for someone she doesn't love or who doesn't care about her (and knowing that she doesn't want to wait until marriage).... How would you react ? Would you be creeped out or excited/honored ? Would you like to "teach" her, or prefer a more experienced girl ?

Thanks !
That's all that counts: cute, young, and attractive. As far as the virgin part, I will assume that she is a bit more difficult to get into bed, she will be opinionated about things going to far, and I'd have to be extra sensitive when it comes to that point, if it ever does.

Really, it's never been a "turn on", and almost a negative depending on the age (>24). IMHO there is a mental wall that she keeps building in order to keep resisting the inevitable, so by the time she is in her mid-20s, a guy faces some stiff resistance cuz she's already made up her mind as to "don't pass GO".
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Old 08-06-2013, 03:45 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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How much above 20? lol Over 25, and I might wonder, but otherwise, it's not unreasonable or strange, just not usual. Anyway, at my age, I don't think I'd be dating anyone under 30, so it doesn't matter.
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Old 08-06-2013, 04:13 PM
 
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I don't think people generally care.

I think it's usually the high school, or super religious crowd that makes a fuss.


Bolded is mostly true, however, a lot of guys do get off knowing that they are a womans first.
The truth is, you (Or I anyway) never do forget your first. For the people that get close to 100 partners, I donno if the first can be remembered, but I do remember my first.

But as a guy, if I dated a woman who was a virgin, as long as we were compatitble, that would be more of a positive than a negative. But I would wonder about her sexual drive... if she has an extremely low libido, THAT would be a problem. The virginity would not be.

When I lost my V-card, my partner had no idea I had never been intimate before. I told her afterwards( 2 weeks-ish), but we hadn't had that talk untill that point.
I suppose for a woman it's different...
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Old 08-06-2013, 04:18 PM
 
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I'd think she was unintrested with sex in general.
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Old 08-06-2013, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Guys if you would meet a girl who is let's say above 20 years old, pretty face, attractive body, but still a virgin, not because of religious reasons... just because she doesn't want to give it away for someone she doesn't love or who doesn't care about her (and knowing that she doesn't want to wait until marriage).... How would you react ? Would you be creeped out or excited/honored ? Would you like to "teach" her, or prefer a more experienced girl ?

Thanks !
Sex is a normal, joyful part of adult relationships. Someone who sees virginity as something not to be "given away" sounds like someone with a pretty old-fashioned, uptight attitude about sex. Probably not someone I would be compatible with.
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Old 08-06-2013, 04:20 PM
 
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Someone we kmow Anna181?

If I were a 20 something I would consider it a challenge.
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