Should a woman confirm a date? (best, calls, contact, second)
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That's not a date. What are you supposed to keep all Saturday night and day open for when he calls?
I would make other plans.
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I would call and say something about wanting to plan your day and you were wondering if he still wanted to do something.
Look at it this way, if you have to dance around the issue of calling or not calling a guy after 3 dates, then you're not well-suited for each other. It shouldn't be that difficult.
If you're interested, follow up. If you're not interested or you desire to let him follow up with you for manners or custom's sake, leave it to him to call you, tell him he didn't follow up with firm plans, and you are SO sorry about this Saturday, but would he be free to confirm a time and a plan for next Saturday? Such an answer would confirm he's not G-d's gift to the world and women like you don't wait around AND he hasn't created an axis in your world yet (don't read too much into this last phrase).
Frankly in this day and age, with everything that keeps people apart and others who wonder how to connect, if you see something you like, show more interest than being a dining partner. YOU pick up the phone and YOU create a date for the two of you to enjoy. Let him see your interest and your desire for contact by your follow up. It still takes two to dance.
Thats not a date. He might have been vague because he is not interested.
If you are interested, I say be proactive. I would rather know then keep wondering. Call him, ask him when he is picking you up. Or, take more initiative and ask him somewhere specific, at a specific time of your choosing.
If he balks, move on. He might have been avoiding telling you he really wasn't interested in the first place.
My opinion is that he is a player, and testing you, to see how crappy he can treat you. And how much you will take.
This guy is not that into you. I suggest you call him, if you want, personally, I would really evaluate this....I mean, he should have at least sent you a text.
I hung out with a player like this, he had all these excuses, "Lost my cell phone, blah blah, bs...", he was seeing how much he could blow me off. Since I really did not care much, and he was good in bed, I let it all slide. I was not looking for a LTR.
If you are, this guy is not the one for you.
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i guess after 3 dates, a proper " sorry but it's not working" note would be a decent thing to do 
