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Have you seen the trendy bowling alleys these days?
Yeah yeah...they may have flashy lights and new equipment. But have you seen the workers? Scary. And many of the bowlers are still hicks. They have to still get the trash out.
But the difference is they have the option to read and ignore. What they women are doing is responding to me and acting like I never stated I wanted a playful sitaution.
You're right, this thread isn't about you being a hypocrite...carry on.
Discussion entails back and forth communication and, most of the time you're asked a question, you either deflect it, ignore it or come up with a totally irrelevant and "flip" response. That's not a discussion.
Discussion entails back and forth communication and, most of the time you're asked a question, you either deflect it, ignore it or come up with a totally irrelevant and "flip" response. That's not a discussion.
When they see I want to do a fetish activity or something foreplay related they will say....."You are so silly" Why not just respond to a guy who is looking for a relationship??????????
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Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75
She responded to me first and then I asked.......did you read my profile? If not read it and tell me what you think?
Then she says...."I don't know about doing XYZ but I can deal with the other things but I just figured you were being silly.
Since you've said a few times that women thought you were just being silly... you might want to take a look at the verbiage you're using in your ads. Maybe it's coming across in a joking manner, or maybe you've got too much silliness in your ad overall, giving the impression that the part about having your neck tickled (or whatever you put in there) is also a joke?
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Originally Posted by librarySue
You need to be more specific than "Intimate Encounter". Women tend to want intimacy, when what you want is a Sexual Encounter.
Aren't there websites that are not about online dating but about connecting with others who have similar interests to yours? Fetishes and kinky stuff???
THIS. The phrase "intimate encounter" is pretty nebulous. To some people, it means DTF or NSA. To others, it means looking for a FWB or a relationship that heads to the bedroom quicker than usual.
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Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75
Let me make myself clear
I never ever wanted a women who is looking for a intimate situation. I prefer a woman who is looking for a relationship and then sees my ad and says......"that's different and I'm curious enough to consider it"
No way in hell would I ever let any woman in my place who signs up for a intimate encounter website....EWWW
This seems hypocritical. So it's ok for you to post an ad in the CraigsList intimate encounters section but not okay for a woman who is looking for a foot fetishist or a guy who is into habanero popsicles to join a specialist/intimate encounter website?
Speaking as someone who has my own kinks, I promise you, you'll have a much more fulfilling sexual life if you make a point of finding people who share your preferences rather than hoping to find a nice relationship minded partner who is intrigued or curious enough to consider humoring your preferences.
Since you've said a few times that women thought you were just being silly... you might want to take a look at the verbiage you're using in your ads. Maybe it's coming across in a joking manner, or maybe you've got too much silliness in your ad overall, giving the impression that the part about having your neck tickled (or whatever you put in there) is also a joke?
THIS. The phrase "intimate encounter" is pretty nebulous. To some people, it means DTF or NSA. To others, it means looking for a FWB or a relationship that heads to the bedroom quicker than usual.
This seems hypocritical. So it's ok for you to post an ad in the CraigsList intimate encounters section but not okay for a woman who is looking for a foot fetishist or a guy who is into habanero popsicles to join a specialist/intimate encounter website?
Speaking as someone who has my own kinks, I promise you, you'll have a much more fulfilling sexual life if you make a point of finding people who share your preferences rather than hoping to find a nice relationship minded partner who is intrigued or curious enough to consider humoring your preferences.
Real life isn't Cinderella.
I prefer to be involve with a woman who is a "fetish virgin" because the activity is more exciting. Not sure why though
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