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Old 08-13-2013, 04:46 PM
 
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AWW HELL
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Old 08-13-2013, 04:50 PM
 
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Then say no. I would. I don't want to live with anyone unless we're married.
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Old 08-13-2013, 04:57 PM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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AWW HELL
No benefits and headache for you in the end imo.
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Old 08-13-2013, 05:09 PM
 
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Smart guy, OP!
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Old 08-13-2013, 08:20 PM
 
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I told her we should keep going out and talk about it again in a couple of months and she was a bit embarrassed at first but understood.
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Old 08-13-2013, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Okay. Thanks for sharing.
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Old 08-13-2013, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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How long have you two been going out?
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Old 08-13-2013, 10:51 PM
 
Location: Philippines
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Sounds like you handled it well. No sense having her move in and create mountains of more problems when you are not ready for it.
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Old 08-13-2013, 10:54 PM
 
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I think you should let her move in after you get married but not before that time.
Actually, even after you get married she really does not have to move in, some people do that and stay married for the rest of their lives.
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Old 08-14-2013, 03:59 AM
 
Location: NY
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It is fine to say no and take your time. No need to rush into playing house prematurely!

I think you gave her an excellent reply.
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