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Did he actually put that in quotes or are you simply quoting what he said?
IMO, if he actually said "have some fun" then I would interpret it as sex.
If he only said, "Lets meet up and have some fun" then I would take it as he's interested and is looking forward to having a fun evening with good company.
Don't over analyze it. If he's not even the person you think he claims to be then it really doesn't matter what his comment means.
He didn't put it in quotes, I'm just quoting him.
Hopefully I'll get proof of his identity by tonight so I can put this issue to rest either way. I'm waiting on a pertinent piece of information.
Hopefully I'll get proof of his identity by tonight so I can put this issue to rest either way. I'm waiting on a pertinent piece of information.
How many people verify identities in this manner?
I assume you are trying to pry out this guys last name without being obvious.
Do you do this with guys you meet in public?
I would be willing to bet that this hottie and you have been texting/talking for a little bit by now. Is everyone a raging criminal these days? Why not just meet in public and see if you have a connection. If you don't then leave. If you do, then bring him home and
I don't get the security clearance that some people feel they require just to meet a guy. I know personal safety is a concern for women, but isn't this extreme? I thought that is what public places were for. I kind of get the idea you want to jump his bones before getting to know him, and you need to make sure he isnt some axe murderer. Why not just meet a couple times and get to know him, then you will know if he is decent and
Most likely, anyone using OK cupid or free dating sites are thinking "hook up only", but they sell it like "relationship wanted". You should know the deal by now. His hotness is confusing you, and you are not thinking with your brain...
I would just answer back, "sure, what did you have in mind?" and you will know immediately rather than trying to guess. If it's anything that involves anything other than normal date activity or sounds sexual, just say you think you are looking for different things and wish him well.
How many people verify identities in this manner?
I assume you are trying to pry out this guys last name without being obvious.
I already have the last name.
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Do you do this with guys you meet in public?
Yes, I Google them just to see what's out there.
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I would be willing to bet that this hottie and you have been texting/talking for a little bit by now. Is everyone a raging criminal these days? Why not just meet in public and see if you have a connection. If you don't then leave. If you do, then bring him home and
I'm not assuming he's a criminal. I just wouldn't want a completely different guy to show up for the date. lol
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I don't get the security clearance that some people feel they require just to meet a guy. I know personal safety is a concern for women, but isn't this extreme? I thought that is what public places were for. I kind of get the idea you want to jump his bones before getting to know him, and you need to make sure he isnt some axe murderer. Why not just meet a couple times and get to know him, then you will know if he is decent and
See above.
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Most likely, anyone using OK cupid or free dating sites are thinking "hook up only", but they sell it like "relationship wanted". You should know the deal by now. His hotness is confusing you, and you are not thinking with your brain...
Not trying to judge but I'm a bit confused by why you need to use OKCupid for hooking up this way. It seems like you are perfectly fine with just having sex, the only thing holding you back is whether he looks like his picture. As a woman, can't you find a good looking man in a bar/lounge/club, put the right moves on him and have a hookup easily? You're not looking for anything serious, why go through the trouble of screening men online?
I'm not assuming he's a criminal. I just wouldn't want a completely different guy to show up for the date. lol
See above.
True. I'm conflicted by his hotness.
If this is all you are worried about, just meet him for coffee to see what he looks like. Probably would take less time than all the snooping you are doing. I don't see the big deal in just meeting someone? Since it doesn't seem you are concerned with his intentions, just his hotness.
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