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Old 08-16-2013, 11:50 AM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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I question why your girlfriend is double dating with her sister and you're not the date.
Actually it's not a date, they just hang out with random friends in general, along with their little cousins.
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Old 08-16-2013, 11:58 AM
 
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It just shows a lack of respect...pure and simple.
What else do you need to know?

If I make plans with someone at 9-10 and they show up at 1 am, that isn't Late. That's a No-Show.

If that happens once, I might excuse them if they have a good reason (Car accident, grandma needed a ride to the hospital, etc). In this age of cell phones, who doesn't send a text if they get hung up? If it happens twice, I don't make plans with them again. Clearly they don't value my company or my time. Who needs friends like that?

Rude. Lack of respect, pure and simple.
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Old 08-16-2013, 12:00 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Actually it's not a date, they just hang out with random friends in general, along with their little cousins.
Ok. Whatever helps you sleep at night. When your girlfriend is on a date.
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Old 08-16-2013, 12:45 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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Ok. Whatever helps you sleep at night. When your girlfriend is on a date.
What makes you think it's a "date"?

It's just her, her sister, their cousin and the guyfriend she is with.
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Old 08-16-2013, 12:47 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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What makes you think it's a "date"?

It's just her, her sister, their cousin and the guyfriend she is with.
Reread your very first post.
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Old 08-16-2013, 12:50 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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Ok. Whatever helps you sleep at night. When your girlfriend is on a date.
Also, I don't get this, if I say that she should not hang out with her guy friends, then some people will call me "controlling" and such, and that I don't trust her.

But, if I do let her hang out with her guyfriends, along with trusting her and along with her sister tagging along then you say I should be worried? And it's a date?

You all need to make up your minds.
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Old 08-16-2013, 12:52 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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Reread your very first post.
I know exactly what I said, I meant the guys are just her friends, not guyfriends as in "boy-friends".
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Old 08-16-2013, 12:52 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Also, I don't get this, if I say that she should not hang out with her guy friends, then some people will call me "controlling" and such, and that I don't trust her.

But, if I do let her hang out with her guyfriends, along with trusting her and along with her sister tagging along then you say I should be worried? And it's a date?

You all need to make up your minds.
She's going out at 1AM, when everyone else is asleep, with her ex-boyfriend.

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Old 08-16-2013, 12:58 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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She's going out at 1AM, when everyone else is asleep, with her ex-boyfriend.
You misunderstood what I said.

I said that when my girlfriend, along with her sister and/or their little cousins, when are prepared to go hang out with friends(including some or few guys that are friends), their friends that are suppose to pick them up early like around 9pm comes late at around 1 and by then, my girlfriend, her sister and cousins or asleep.

Same goes with her(my girlfriend) ex boyfriend (who she use to be with but was back in middle school and not for long, she is now 20 years old by the way) that she hangs with once a while with her sister.
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Old 08-16-2013, 01:00 PM
 
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Like I said before, I TRUST MY GIRLFRIEND.
"Trust but verify"

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