Friend said 5 years and he's out...... (like, parents, support, money)
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The bottom line is that they hate each other. Nothing else to it. He is terribly mean to her and she spends the $$ like water. The kids are messed up. They enter HS next year. I wonder what that will be like for them.
I feel bad for both of them but mostly the kids because they have no choice but to live there. She thinks it's fine that he doesn't want sex from her and feels that things are going along back to normal. But, like I said in 5 years he's serving her with papers. Sad
There it is, once he gets his kids past 18 so he is not on the hook for child support and gets rid of her he can actually start saving for retirement so he does not have to work till he dies. Once it becomes apparent that they cant save money he is going to resent that, she puts the entire family in jeopardy becuase if he looses his job they are all up the creek.
There it is, once he gets his kids past 18 so he is not on the hook for child support and gets rid of her he can actually start saving for retirement so he does not have to work till he dies. Once it becomes apparent that they cant save money he is going to resent that, she puts the entire family in jeopardy becuase if he looses his job they are all up the creek.
He spends $$ like water as well. He's just says it's all her but it's him too.
He spends $$ like water as well. He's just says it's all her but it's him too.
if he loses his job it's bankruptcy.
So maybe she will be better off and he can blow money all the way to bankruptcy and she does not have to have her credit wrecked (unless she can not stop her own spending).
She would have to be a blind fool not to expect that coming. If they are staying together "for the kids" then why would she expect he would stay once the kids are gone? Or away in college? She's just buying herself 5 more years and hoping his anger will subside.
There was no mutual decision to stay together for the kids. It's a secret decision HE made, without telling her. Review the OP's posts.
I dont grasp others telling me what my responsibilities will be and then using the courts to enforce it. I should not have to grasp YOUR concept of responsibility but the courts make it compulsury (if you have biological children) and we wonder why things are so messed up. This nation was founded on the pricipals that you dont impose your version of morality on me or others. I dont care if you think its every parents "responsibility" to send there kids to private schools and the best day cares and have the newest and greatest bikes, designer clothes, expensive trips over seas, etc etc.
The bottom line is that they hate each other. Nothing else to it. He is terribly mean to her and she spends the $$ like water. The kids are messed up. They enter HS next year. I wonder what that will be like for them.
I feel bad for both of them but mostly the kids because they have no choice but to live there. She thinks it's fine that he doesn't want sex from her and feels that things are going along back to normal. But, like I said in 5 years he's serving her with papers. Sad
Why is he mean to her? When did that start, and what caused it, do you know?
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