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Old 08-19-2013, 09:37 AM
 
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I don't go to bars, not do I drink.

I'm not shy or scared. I guess I just don't look very friendly. And most girls would talk to the 4/10 who they think they'd have more chance with than the unapproachable 8/10 (me)

Being shy or scared has got absolutley notihing to do with the way you look.
If your an "8" or beyond in this scale of looks, then a "8" or higher female will also like you.

Whose fault is it that you don't look friendly? Unless you have a genetic deformity or something that is all on you! Smile!

Being scared or shy has a lot to do with how women perceive you. What woman wants a shy timid guy sitting at the end of a lunch room? I'm not saying be a confident know-it-all, but having confidence goes along way with how women perceive you.

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Old 08-19-2013, 09:40 AM
 
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this idea of numbers you have is worthless. what good is being an "8" if it doesn't translate into women actually being attracted to you?

i suggest you think more critically about the role being friendly, approachable, talkative and charming has in being attractive rather than some numeric looks scale you just made up in your head
Agreed. If I perceive myself as a "10"...how the hell am I not talking to the other gender for more than 2 minutes at a time! Your obviously not a 8 or a 10!

That's like saying a 8 or 10 for some chick you see has never talked to a male for more than 2 minutes? Please.
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Old 08-19-2013, 05:37 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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What is with this whole attractiveness scale thing!?

I mean really, I'm 6'4, I'm not fat anymore, have a boyish looking face, wear glasses and have a little belly-fat but am fit looking and I wouldn't know if a girl was interested in me if it was slapping me in the face.

How does ANY of that figure, it can't be just some stupid number.
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Old 08-19-2013, 06:40 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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I'm not a natural at smiling.

Besides finding a date/relation is a lot harder than what some make it out to be.

Especially for people like me with an above average pattern of thought and self conciseness.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:02 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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an above average pattern of thought and self conciseness.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:27 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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To break it down, people like us think a lot more before we execute our every move.
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:34 PM
 
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To break it down, people like us think a lot more before we execute our every move.
Is that why you completely missed the target and wrote "self-conciseness" instead of "self-consciousness"? Because you think before executing every move?
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Old 08-19-2013, 07:36 PM
 
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He is smarter than us. So damn smart he can't talk to a female counterpart for more than 2 minutes! Noone wants a know-it-all!

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Old 08-19-2013, 07:38 PM
 
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What is with this whole attractiveness scale thing!?

I mean really, I'm 6'4, I'm not fat anymore, have a boyish looking face, wear glasses and have a little belly-fat but am fit looking and I wouldn't know if a girl was interested in me if it was slapping me in the face.

How does ANY of that figure, it can't be just some stupid number.
"Boyish looking face"...I'm no female, but unless I'm 8 years old women don't want "boyish men". Please never describe yourself that way again or at least not online.

Ditch the glasses...get contacts. Please done tell me though...."I can't touch my eyes".

These might help...or maybe not. Who knows.

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Old 08-19-2013, 07:41 PM
 
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Is that why you completely missed the target and wrote "self-conciseness" instead of "self-consciousness"? Because you think before executing every move?
Boom goes the dynamite!

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