Is My Ex Letting me down "Easy" ? (how to, girl, younger)
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Stay away from this girl, she appears to have boundry issues. I was chasing a young gal years ago who seemed like she had her act together on the surface but was pure poison as far as me and her went. She sounds similar to your confused Ex girlfriend.
The 60 days is for yourself. To find another purpose in life than just this girl.
After those 60 days be breezy and light, no confessions of undying love and no neediness.
Maybe she will miss you and realize what a great catch you are. My guess is she won't.
I was a 22 year old woman myself and had the experience you describe. I tend to gree with others above. 60 days no comms. Date, shag, live and laugh with other girls. She dumped you once, she will probably dump you again.
you want to change? embrace the following mantra: "I don't care". live it, breathe it, act on it. day after day, week after week. month after month, and forever there after. she doesn't want a nice guy, so get with the program. Be something other than a nice guy.
they are plenty of examples where a guy appears to have it all but has no social or relationship skills, like you.
So that's what she wants is a guy that isn't nice ?
That does make alot of sense.
When i do back off and do act like i don't care she pushes towards me.
God the worlds so twisted.....
I honestly am not good at social or relationship skills you hit that right on the money pal
Stay away from this girl, she appears to have boundry issues. I was chasing a young gal years ago who seemed like she had her act together on the surface but was pure poison as far as me and her went. She sounds similar to your confused Ex girlfriend.
Sheesh . What do you mean seemed like she had her act together ?
The 60 days is for yourself. To find another purpose in life than just this girl.
After those 60 days be breezy and light, no confessions of undying love and no neediness.
Maybe she will miss you and realize what a great catch you are. My guess is she won't.
I was a 22 year old woman myself and had the experience you describe. I tend to gree with others above. 60 days no comms. Date, shag, live and laugh with other girls. She dumped you once, she will probably dump you again.
She dumped me twice actually....
& yes your right man it's time to let go.
Ugh you ever feel like you hate someone for not loving you the way you love them ?
So that's what she wants is a guy that isn't nice ?
That does make alot of sense.
When i do back off and do act like i don't care she pushes towards me.
God the worlds so twisted.....
I honestly am not good at social or relationship skills you hit that right on the money pal
No, no... you are looking for a reason to keep at it with her here.
You think if you just act like a bad boy she will stay with you.
Don't do it. I really don't think that will work.
She's just codependent like you are, but it's still not what she wants.
No one can answer the question of why people are attracted to who they are or not attracted to who they are. It is a mystery that people have been trying to solve for millions of years. Let it go.
Quit playing dumb. You know exactly what's happening.
She's keeping you around for attention and you're giving it to her. Stop it.
This is a prime example of "the friendzone" situation. Note how this isn't something that she's doing to him, he volunteered for it.
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