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Old 08-26-2013, 11:24 AM
 
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Bad wife! Bad!!! I wouldn't want to do it with my SO if they had absolutely no interest or desire.
As a step intended to help reclaimi desire? Why not?

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I know it takes some time for women after having a child, and I'd be okay with that. I want you to want me (Cheap Trick FTW!)
It was not a cheap trick. He was well aware of it.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:24 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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It's not fair. Guys can't fake it!
Lol most don't have too
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:24 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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It's not fair. Guys can't fake it!
They don't have to. They require no special techniques, they can get off with a plastic doll. Boo hoo.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Texas
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As a step intended to help reclaimi desire? Why not?



It was not a cheap trick. He was well aware of it.
The band, silly! Aren't you supposed to know these things, given your DOB?
Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me (Budokan Live - Audio Version) (1978) - YouTube
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I have never faked it but most guys don't even notice as some are very selfish
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:51 AM
 
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The band, silly! Aren't you supposed to know these things, given your DOB?

Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me (Budokan Live - Audio Version) (1978) - YouTube
LOL! I wanted to want him too! It wound up working, so all is well that ends well.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Arizona
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How's he supposed learn what to do if you don't tell him, and lead him to believe he does know what he's doing by faking it?

I've never understood that reasoning. It seems like the most self-defeating thing a woman could do in a relationship. I've read of cases where a guy went through a whole marriage thinking he was satisfying his wife, until she suddenly divorced him. The poor guy didn't know what hit him. He said, "I would have done anything for that woman! Why didn't she tell me what she needed from me?" Tragic!

If you tell the guy what he needs to do, then everyone has more fun--win, win!
Yup
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:56 AM
 
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Yup
I clarified that I would never fake it in a relationship.

The incident I was referring to was a ONS/FWB scenario.
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Old 08-26-2013, 12:01 PM
 
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yup, and i'm a guy
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Old 08-26-2013, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Geauga County, Ohio
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How's he supposed learn what to do if you don't tell him, and lead him to believe he does know what he's doing by faking it?

I've never understood that reasoning. It seems like the most self-defeating thing a woman could do in a relationship. I've read of cases where a guy went through a whole marriage thinking he was satisfying his wife, until she suddenly divorced him. The poor guy didn't know what hit him. He said, "I would have done anything for that woman! Why didn't she tell me what she needed from me?" Tragic!

If you tell the guy what he needs to do, then everyone has more fun--win, win!

I agree with you, R4T. I've never understood the logic of faking it for years.

For a ONS I can see the reasoning though.

I have never faked it - seriously! I'm fortunate in that, as long as I'm turned on, I typically "O" fairly easily, but if I don't I'm not afraid to say so. By the time I was at a point where I was aware enough of sex and my own orgasms that I could say a guy wasn't doing it right, I was also confident enough to show or tell him how in a way that didn't shatter his confidence.
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