have you ever faked it (how to, men, husband, couple)
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How's he supposed learn what to do if you don't tell him, and lead him to believe he does know what he's doing by faking it?
I've never understood that reasoning. It seems like the most self-defeating thing a woman could do in a relationship. I've read of cases where a guy went through a whole marriage thinking he was satisfying his wife, until she suddenly divorced him. The poor guy didn't know what hit him. He said, "I would have done anything for that woman! Why didn't she tell me what she needed from me?" Tragic!
If you tell the guy what he needs to do, then everyone has more fun--win, win!
How's he supposed learn what to do if you don't tell him, and lead him to believe he does know what he's doing by faking it?
I've never understood that reasoning. It seems like the most self-defeating thing a woman could do in a relationship. I've read of cases where a guy went through a whole marriage thinking he was satisfying his wife, until she suddenly divorced him. The poor guy didn't know what hit him. He said, "I would have done anything for that woman! Why didn't she tell me what she needed from me?" Tragic!
If you tell the guy what he needs to do, then everyone has more fun--win, win!
I agree with you, R4T. I've never understood the logic of faking it for years.
For a ONS I can see the reasoning though.
I have never faked it - seriously! I'm fortunate in that, as long as I'm turned on, I typically "O" fairly easily, but if I don't I'm not afraid to say so. By the time I was at a point where I was aware enough of sex and my own orgasms that I could say a guy wasn't doing it right, I was also confident enough to show or tell him how in a way that didn't shatter his confidence.
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