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She has never maintained any friendships from high school or college. She treats people disposably. Doesn’t make any effort to mend a broken friendship. Does what is most convenient to her even if it leaves her lonely, even though that is her biggest fear. She has no real friends she can confide in.
She comes from a broken family where her dad cheats on her mom and yet the mother doesn’t leave. The brother left her house and has cut off all contact from her family.
On her mother’s side of the family, she doesn’t know who her grandfather is coz apparently he bailed on her grandmother when she got pregnant.
In a romantic relationship, she gives her partner her all. She has no real hobbies. Can grow an interest in whatever her partner is interested in. kind of like the most perfect girl friend. Always ready for anything sexual And Always does the sweetest things to keep the partners interest. But as soon as she is out of love, she destroys the partner to the degree where she easily forgets about every friendship they built together. She also relationship hops.
She has cheated in her past relationship viciously. Still tries to manipulate her ex by saying she wants to be friends etc and that she misses his friendship. When the chips are down she can do anything manipulative to get the person back. She will tell the person what he wants to hear. Not what she actually feels?
She only feels and acts based on how it would make her feel better.
As a person She can move from one opinion to the other within minutes. She is highly impulsive and will do things for the thrill of it without considering any repercussions. She is also very mistrusting of people in general.
So my question is.. what type of a person do u think this is?
how can such a perfect girlfriend be so strange as a human ?
Is it an act? Is she a narcissist? Is she worth it?
She might be afraid of life and living in particular moment. Also you might missread her of some things. Broken family ships- losing people- no trust - fear of losing people etc.
Who knows where she is at mentally.. I think she searches for happiness externally and fears loneliness, but is that a reason to date? isn't it just a temporary way to cope? Its shallow and i find it wont really make any1 truly happy...
Sounds like she had some serious issues as a child. In order to cope she may have learned to become very efficient at compartmentalizing, however over time those compartments will become jammed up with crap and will not close correctly anymore. With out taking time to work on herself and clean out some of that clutter, it will start to leak out in horrendous displays of ugliness. If you are her friend, you may want to push that she get some help, but if she doesn't want it, save yourself the headache and the heartache and steer clear. Because when it goes, and it will go!, it's going to be let go on you.
Borderline Personality. Just tossing out a third character disorder not yet mentioned.
Yes. And attachment disorder. Definitely trust issues. That family of origin stuff she carries around has turned her into a person who is a survivor and is not afraid to ensure her survival in a relationship with tactics that bring drama, drama, drama. Of course she is only marginally aware of her problems if she is aware at all. She can be good, kind, loving if that is what it takes to keep you with her. If she experiences rejection, WATCH OUT. If it is true borderline behavior, they freak at rejection.
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