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Old 08-29-2013, 08:20 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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she started getting feelings for me, and said that we can't be intimate anymore, because she doesn't want those feelings to grow any more than they already are, because our age difference.


What is the age difference?
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Old 08-29-2013, 08:26 AM
 
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What is the age difference?
Im 24, she's 42.
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Old 08-29-2013, 08:27 AM
 
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{She says} I'm not a drunk



She's a drunk.
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Old 08-29-2013, 08:36 AM
 
Location: NC
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How should I play this?
By not "playing" it. Just be yourself. If you really like her, tell her, but as others said, just make sure you don't leave yourself open to be at her beck and call. Not to say you should play games of position and power, just don't let yourself get taken advantage of.

Be honest with her, and try to have a healthy balance of following your head, and your heart. What I tell you is of no relevance to you, you have a different set of values (than anyone, you're your own guy), so just be true, and roll with it.

Good luck man,
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Old 08-29-2013, 08:39 AM
 
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insecure rebound type.....avoid unless you want to be "the *******" just like her ex at some point
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Old 08-29-2013, 10:37 PM
 
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By not "playing" it. Just be yourself. If you really like her, tell her, but as others said, just make sure you don't leave yourself open to be at her beck and call. Not to say you should play games of position and power, just don't let yourself get taken advantage of.

Be honest with her, and try to have a healthy balance of following your head, and your heart. What I tell you is of no relevance to you, you have a different set of values (than anyone, you're your own guy), so just be true, and roll with it.

Good luck man,
awesome, thank you.
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Old 08-29-2013, 11:14 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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Im 24, she's 42.
dude, don't be such a nice guy. hang out with her, share drinks and good times, and start making out with her. tell her that's all you want to do cuz you know she is still trying to figure stuff out, so this is just drunk kissing fun, nothing serious. the rest will play out as it is supposed to. be realistic, you guys are just good souls crossing paths, so you might as well enjoy each other's company... and tell her that. enjoy.

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Old 08-30-2013, 12:37 AM
 
Location: NYC
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i think the term "hot mess" was invented for gals like this
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Old 08-30-2013, 02:20 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Now, why would someone defend their social drinking, right out of the blue.

I'd keep an eye on this, as it is just one sign of alcoholism.
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Old 08-30-2013, 02:41 AM
 
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be a good friend,,, see how it goes- you got nothing to lose, and she might be fun to be with.
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