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Old 09-02-2013, 03:52 PM
 
Location: USA
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Not all 40 something men slow down sexually nor do they need viagara. If the man in question takes care if himself and excerises he is good to go.
At 41 I definately don't need Viagra, but my desire to chase is not what it used to be. Maybe I got all of the chasing out of my system in my 20s and 30s or maybe I'm getting lazy or sufferring from Low T.

I would naturally say that big age differences don't work but I know enough couples that defy that stereotype to know its not the case.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Because you're so mature?
You're being stupid. I'm not going to argue about my personal choices. I'm happy my child is well off and I'm studying for the second time. Your opinion of what you THINK is right means nothing to me. You are what's wrong with the world, people like you are so pathetic and boring that all you have to do is criticise other people's lives. That's extremely sad.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:53 PM
 
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We are all well educated too. My friends have good jobs and are great mothers. Being old does not make you a better parent.
Are they all college graduates with husbands?
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:53 PM
 
Location: In nature
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I want more kids and you're right in the middle of my age range
You two should hook up. Match made on CD.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:53 PM
 
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Being ready for kids does. I've always been more mature so having my son at 23 was no problem for me.
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I disagree. There are teenagers that try to get pregnant because they feel they are ready for kids.

Did you and your husband plan on having children?
I think Dew's comments that follow make the point.

Thinking you're ready for kids does not make you mature.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:54 PM
 
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You're being stupid.
Haha. Maturity at it's finest.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:54 PM
 
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Nope I'm not married.
Who pays for the kid, you, the ex or the tax payers? I know plenty of women who had babies under 25 but all were on welfare. That is disgusting and proves they weren't ready.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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don't be so delusional. yeah, confidence is great but not many "older" men can date younger women. as many women here on CDR will point out, the vast majority of younger women do not want to date older men.

It happens, and there are definitely many guys who are able to date younger women, but you need to look at them as the exception, not the norm. I'm not trying to discourage you, just telling you that you need to work on being exceptional to make your dream into a reality. nokiddin.
I'm not at the least delusional. I also don't believe a forum full of women strangers to tell me otherwise; that's their reality/observations, not mine.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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ooops, my bad. thought you said you wouldn't date over 30.

no i wanna friend you up
Lol no no no, I prefer to date older. If I'm honest though I haven't dated I'n 4 years after I had my son I wanted to focus on him and being a good mum not chase men.



Mmmm....we are friends lol
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:56 PM
 
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Seems like the women have spoken with in the recent past have been younger than I have been flaky and fell off the planet, so I'm going to say older than I and maybe it won't be so bad, but I won't hold my breath.
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