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Old 09-02-2013, 02:56 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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You're being stupid. I'm not going to argue about my personal choices. I'm happy my child is well off and I'm studying for the second time. Your opinion of what you THINK is right means nothing to me. You are what's wrong with the world, people like you are so pathetic and boring that all you have to do is criticise other people's lives. That's extremely sad.
I'm simply trying to point out that having children young does not make one mature. You are trying to prove that you are mature beyond your years because you have a child. I don't think you are making your case very well.

I don't see how I'm what's wrong with the world. You made a statement about your maturity level - and it doesn't seem that you are backing it up. Instead you are lashing out and insulting me because I'm questioning the validity of your self assessment.
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Old 09-02-2013, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Who pays for the kid, you, the ex or the tax payers? I know plenty of women who had babies under 25 but all were on welfare. That is disgusting and proves they weren't ready.
I lay for him on my own not that that's any of your business though.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I'm simply trying to point out that having children young does not make one mature. You are trying to prove that you are mature beyond your years because you have a child. I don't think you are making your case very well.

I don't see how I'm what's wrong with the world. You made a statement about your maturity level - and it doesn't seem that you are backing it up. Instead you are lashing out and insulting me because I'm questioning the validity of your self assessment.
You're wrong. Having my child made me grow up more because I had a responsibility. I had this little baby who depended on me for everything, I had to be the best parent I could be so yes I think having a baby forces you to grow up. I do believe I'm mature beyond my years.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Are they all college graduates with husbands?
Some college some university. Husbands/LTB.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Haha. Maturity at it's finest.
Why thank you
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:03 PM
 
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I lay for him on my own not that that's any of your business though.
Actually it is my business if welfare was paying for him. Studies have proven that many babies born to unwed mothers were on welfare and that isn't responsible behavior.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:03 PM
 
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I'm willing to take that chance, and besides, my bullet has plenty of gunpowder (been proven)

So what, date a woman that's my age (mid 30's btw) that's either done having kids (or cant have more then 1 more) or a 45-50 that's in their yearly stages menopause?

I want the option of a big family, and there's no shortage of 20-30 yr olds who are willing to date an older man like myself. So, I don't see it as problem for me.
I feel the same way about having a big family. If my early 50 something uncle can have a relationship with a very early thirty something woman with luck so can I.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:05 PM
 
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Actually it is my business if welfare was paying for him. Studies have proven that many babies born to unwed mothers were on welfare and that isn't responsible behavior.
I'm pretty sure America doesn't pay for the welfare of babies in different countries.
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Old 09-02-2013, 03:06 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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I'm not at the least delusional. I also don't believe a forum full of women strangers to tell me otherwise; that's their reality/observations, not mine.
on that assertion that most younger women won't date older guys, they speak the truth. take from an older guy who has been dating younger women all of his adult life, and i'm in my 40s.

yesterday, i went to one of those hotel casino pool parties with a super hot 21yo and guys were breaking their neck trying to peek at her. as we were walking out, one 20somethin guy came up to me and said, "dude, i just want you to know that you are the f*ckin' man". she wasn't my date, we were just friends (in fact she has an serious SO) and we were just hanging out. but just the mere fact that i was able to chat up, have cool times, and hang out with a young hottie takes a bit of practice and experience. like i said, you gotta be the exception.

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Old 09-02-2013, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I'm pretty sure America doesn't pay for the welfare of babies in different countries.
Thank you love!


Our system over here is very different.
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