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work with a guy..I thought he was gay for the longest time..found out he wasnt, we started messaging daily..it turned into sending pics..etc..we became great friends as well..nothing sexually ever happened.then..I find out he has a girlfriend..by this time I already started liking him..ik I shouldv just stopped talking to him..1 day he asked for a pic, it wasnt a bad picture..just cleavage..so I sent it..well his girlfriend replied with about 10 messages..using every threatening word imagined..I didnt reply to her..I blocked both her & him..fast forward a few days..I go into work..the girlfriend called our employer & told them what happened..the guy & I arent allowed to work together anymore & have no communication..I just dont know what to think..I need some ideas on how to handle this..thanks.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 09-16-2020 at 08:43 AM..
Reason: Edited thread title for clarification.
Have no communication with him. Excel in your job and let it go. Sad that he knew how crazy his gf is and asked for pics. Appears that he likes her drama.
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work with a guy..I thought he was gay for the longest time..found out he wasnt, we started messaging daily..it turned into sending pics..etc..we became great friends as well..nothing sexually ever happened.then..I find out he has a girlfriend..by this time I already started liking him..ik I shouldv just stopped talking to him..1 day he asked for a pic, it wasnt a bad picture..just cleavage..so I sent it..well his girlfriend replied with about 10 messages..using every threatening word imagined..I didnt reply to her..I blocked both her & him..fast forward a few days..I go into work..the girlfriend called our employer & told them what happened..the guy & I arent allowed to work together anymore & have no communication..I just dont know what to think..I need some ideas on how to handle this..thanks.
Just stop having communication......why would you want to? It's just drama!
Let this be a good reminder to never mess with people from work!
True! She went overboard to you IMO, but she's probably still w/ him instead of dumping him. That's how it often is...the cheated-on GF just loves tearing into the other woman while stupidly staying w/ the BF who she needs to be dumping.
Let this be a learning experience. Don't mess around with a guy you know has a girlfriend. Don't mess around with a co-worker. Don't send people racy pictures via a mobile device.
There is nothing to handle. Do your work and stay away from the guy with a nutty girlfriend.
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except for the thousands (millions ?) of persons who meet their spouse at work.
I know a couple, and none dated while they worked at the same company. They were smart professionals and waited until one left. I can win the lottery as well, that doesn't make it smart to play.
Have no communication with him. Excel in your job and let it go. Sad that he knew how crazy his gf is and asked for pics. Appears that he likes her drama.
Or she could....I don’t know....not send shots of her baabs to a coworker. Even if he was single. And if he is married or has a SO...it should be a absolute nope not gonna touch that.
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except for the thousands (millions ?) of persons who meet their spouse at work.
Yes ....you’re right. But as soon as she found out the guy had a gf......she should of said hey sorry I’m not interested. And she should of had a strictly coworker relationship. Knowing he is in a relationship she sends a pic of her girls in a huddle. And the gf got pissed and complained. She is as much at fault as he is.
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