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Old 09-07-2013, 12:13 PM
 
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His texts were " Hey beautiful" and he sent another text " Are you still sleeping?". I sent him a text back saying "Whats up handsome?" And no reply till now. The texts were sent yesterday noon. I usually hang out with this dude on saturday nights so not sure now if were still seeing each other tonight.
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Old 09-07-2013, 12:32 PM
 
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His texts were " Hey beautiful" and he sent another text " Are you still sleeping?". I sent him a text back saying "Whats up handsome?" And no reply till now. The texts were sent yesterday noon. I usually hang out with this dude on saturday nights so not sure now if were still seeing each other tonight.
Either he is legitimately busy, he is absent minded with his phone, or he is just gaming you. Watch him when your with him. If he is responsive with his phone then he's gaming you. If he doesn't look at it much, keeps it on silent, or doesn't really pay attention it, you have your answer.

Or

He lined up another chick last night and had no need to hit you back.
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Old 09-07-2013, 01:00 PM
 
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His texts were " Hey beautiful" and he sent another text " Are you still sleeping?". I sent him a text back saying "Whats up handsome?" And no reply till now. The texts were sent yesterday noon. I usually hang out with this dude on saturday nights so not sure now if were still seeing each other tonight.
Stop texting. TALK. Then you'll actually understand.
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Old 09-07-2013, 01:04 PM
 
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Stop texting. TALK. Then you'll actually understand.
I'll assume your a bit older. Texting is the norm for twenty somethings and below.
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Old 09-07-2013, 01:05 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I'll assume your a bit older. Texting is the norm for twenty somethings and below.
And look how well it's working for the OP.
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Old 09-07-2013, 01:08 PM
 
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And look how well it's working for the OP.
You think he's gonna answer her call if he's ignoring her texts?

Let's not turn this into an age argument about the lost art of phone conversation. It's the norm now. Get over it.
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Old 09-07-2013, 01:09 PM
 
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not sure but sounds like a player or just corny
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Old 09-07-2013, 01:20 PM
 
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Stop texting. TALK. Then you'll actually understand.
I tried calling him today but he did not pick up. I wanted to confirm our saturday night plan.
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Old 09-07-2013, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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His texts were " Hey beautiful" and he sent another text " Are you still sleeping?". I sent him a text back saying "Whats up handsome?" And no reply till now. The texts were sent yesterday noon. I usually hang out with this dude on saturday nights so not sure now if were still seeing each other tonight.
Maybe it's my age (pushing 40), but it's crazy to me when young people get worked up when they haven't received a response to a communication in 24 hours. In my age demographic (30-somethings) we're young enough that text communication is the norm, but old enough that we're busy professionals with busy lives and don't always expect instant response.

The number of things that can come up in 24 hours is nearly infinite. Often times for me a 24 hour period can consist of just work and sleep, and maybe a social activity thrown in there somewhere, and I just don't get around to responding to texts, even from someone I really like. Catching up with emails and texts is sometimes something I only do every few days, or possibly even once a week.

I wouldn't worry about a lack of response until several days or weeks have gone by, but maybe that's just me.
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Old 09-07-2013, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires
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Take the hint and move on.
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