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This girl has been saying that she really wants to see me and has a "surprise" for me lol. After school I run into this girl and her friends in Burger King. She gives me a little hug and a short dialog then I made my order , got the food and left (not what I expected).
So when I reach home I decided to play some basketball to forget about this sense of disbelief I have. She sent me a text like it was weird talking to you because her friend pulled her over (allegedly) brought up MY name (me the OP) and said that me and her used to talk, that's why she didnt say much.... That is true that I had something with her friend in the past.
She goes on like I'm not looking for a relationship anyway, i dont compete with people for anybody, dont need anything extra in my life etc..
I'm like "you can tell me if you just dont want me, im a cool guy, just be real i dont care "... she like Its not that, she has a lot going on , her friend obviously still likes me and doesnt know that we talk blah blah ....
Eventually we come to a stand that this isn't going anywhere and then she adds "My feelings for you are not going to change, just know " after i called her "a friend".... So now im like cut the ***** and she says "I want to talk to you in person because you dont understand...."
What is the meaning of this? And where should I take this because I still want a piece of that ,no lie.
dude, get to the point. your being vague too. all of you guys are playing aloof drama. you are acting like you talk in text messaging mode.
bottom line: who do you want to hook up with? are you a virgin? who do you want to date?
stop the high school b.s. and get your game on. start learning how to understand women and how to bang them. getting laid is the name of the game until you find the one to settle down with. get to it my friend, you obviously have a few girls interested in you, don't be so oblivious. nothing worse than a guy who doesn't know what he is doing with women.
wish i could trade places with you knowing what i know now. life would be royally delicious. make it happen!
dude, get to the point. your being vague too. all of you guys are playing aloof drama. you are acting like you talk in text messaging mode.
bottom line: who do you want to hook up with? are you a virgin? who do you want to date?
stop the high school b.s. and get your game on. start learning how to understand women and how to bang them. getting laid is the name of the game until you find the one to settle down with someone. get to it my friend, you obviously have a few girls interested in you, don't be so oblivious.
wish i could trade places with you know what i know now. life would be royally delicious. make it happen!
It was the main girl im talking about that I wanted to date, Im in highschool bro lol. No i am not a virgin, im just looking for a girl to fall back with now.
It was the main girl im talking about that I wanted to date, Im in highschool bro lol. No i am not a virgin, im just looking for a girl to fall back with now.
well i figured you were in high school, otherwise i wouldn't be trying to tell you the real deal. i did pretty good dating and getting laid in h.s., but man i wish i would have plowed more. believe me, you have amateur game when you hit college. so i'm just trying to help you out.
pick the girl you want and get her. dont bullsh*t with all the h.s. drama, just go for what you want.
Aston, try to grow into being a man that doesn't use women like the other poster advises. Getting laid isn't the name of the game, growing up is. Do you want a life of broken relationships and people hating you for using them? You have a long life ahead of you, make a good one, not one that uses people and hurts them. And watch out for women that want to hurt you too. It takes integrity to find good people. Good luck.
who said anything about "using people" or hurting them??? stop with the 1950s dogma. it's about discovering your sexuality, with consent and respect. learning to love women both emotionally, intimately, and some may say, spiritually.
do you not think high school kids have been exposed to porn????
unlike prior generations, even the "free love" one, sex is a recognized part of dating and relationship in modern dating. learn how to do it or else you will be one of those CDR's "i can't get dates or get laid" types. dead enders, socially challenged.
OP is having basic problems reading women. i'm just offering focus and cutting to the chase. and being intimate with women is a normal adult function, at least for most. might as well start learning it.
well i figured you were in high school, otherwise i wouldn't be trying to tell you the real deal. i did pretty good dating and getting laid in h.s., but man i wish i would have plowed more. believe me, you have amateur game when you hit college. so i'm just trying to help you out.
pick the girl you want and get her. dont bullsh*t with all the h.s. drama, just go for what you want.
is she hot??? hot h.s. babes are finiky.
Yeah she's hot. My thing is she said she got feelings for me but cannot commit because of what she has going on... and she wants to talk to me in private later today. so idk where to take this, how do I lure her in without a relationship?
lure her in??? dude, she wants to meet with you in private!
but you aren't going to get any where without a "relationship". high school is too socially networked for relationshipless sex, so a relationship with her should be fine with you if she is hot.
women are turned on with their emotions, so you are going to have to learn how to let her know you want her and make her feel that. what you say, how you say it, etc all counts. and learn to be a damn good kisser. in high school, you can damn near give a girl an orgasm by having a blowout make out session. but you have to build up to that. listening, caring, touching, hugging, whispering, random pecks, chuckles, all of that stuff without anyone knowing. it is just you and her in the moment, no one else, and you guys will never have this moment again. and most importantly, shut thef f*ck up, even with your best friend. in fact, she is your best friend in this area; what you guys do is a secret you will never tell anyone, ever, and tell her that. trust, caring for her, and making her feel so special like no other is key. don't be a douche bag with what she shares with you. know that any rumors or suspicion will immediately kill any more good times with her. love her bro like no other. yeah, that's the only way to do it cuz those are the ground rules she has learned. play by the rules and your high school memories become much more rewarding.
plus, it is hot when you guys share secrets no one ever suspects. practice make perfect, don't screw it up. i did, and believe me that will dry up your options quickly. good luck
Yeah she's hot. My thing is she said she got feelings for me but cannot commit because of what she has going on... and she wants to talk to me in private later today. so idk where to take this, how do I lure her in without a relationship?
Why would you want to do that?
If she says she wants to talk to you, why not just talk to her?
Nobody here knows what she is going to say.
Is there some reason you need to remain "single"? You're in high school, not planning a wedding.
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