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Old 09-15-2013, 02:09 PM
 
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So, in another thread, a couple of posters mentioned there are signals women give to men that are 100% guaranteed.

This is purely for my own entertainment, but I would like to know what men and women think those signals are.

Let me clarify by saying I had a friend once who told me the story about a girl asking him out to the homecoming dance (this was a looooong time ago, but I remember it because it was funny). Basically, she said, "You can do whatever you want to me, but you can't f@ck me."

OK. That is not a signal! I don't know what it is, but that kind of stuff does not qualify.
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Old 09-15-2013, 02:20 PM
 
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Well, some of the more successful people will tell you surely.

I can't really help you, as I've had no signals from women either.
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Old 09-15-2013, 02:22 PM
 
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She has sex with you. The end.
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Old 09-15-2013, 02:29 PM
 
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There are no 100% guarantees in anything, but in the other thread you said that in your eyes, a woman expresses interest when she asks you out. What we were trying to point out is that by the time she asks you out, she's been expressing her interest long before she ever says the words.

A lot of it is subconscious, so it's not something that she's doing on purpose. She might be seeking you out in a crowded room, standing or sitting close, and mirroring your body language. She's making eye contact then looking away and blushing, she's playing with her hair or licking her lips; she touches you on the arm or knee. She may be laughing at your jokes (even if, or especially if they're not that funny,) asking you lots of questions, and making it clear in conversation that she's free next weekend or she hasn't seen that movie that everyone is talking about, which is her cue for you to ask her out.
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Old 09-15-2013, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Shows interest in your life stories or similar likes. Touching. Eye contact. Laughing at the lame jokes. Dressing nicer. Flirting a lot. Touching her hair or yours.
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Old 09-15-2013, 03:00 PM
 
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she says "Id love to see your place, do you live far?" 15 minutes after meeting you. In general, I believe that reading signs of interest is a waste of time for a guy. If you see a woman you find attractive, you walk up to her and introduce yourself. If after a brief conversation you still consider her worthy of your time, you ask her out.
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Old 09-15-2013, 03:17 PM
 
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Likely since you're male your interest in gals is solely/mainly sexual so the interest you're seeking from here is solely/mainly sexual in which case the 100% guaranteed interest signal is you asking her to have sex with you and she says yes and has sex with you.
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Old 09-15-2013, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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Message to all women


Guys are simple if you want or need something. Come up to us and ask or tell us to do whatever. Stop hinting, asking in aound about way.
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Old 09-15-2013, 04:08 PM
 
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Let me clarify by saying I had a friend once who told me the story about a girl asking him out to the homecoming dance (this was a looooong time ago, but I remember it because it was funny). Basically, she said, "You can do whatever you want to me, but you can't f@ck me."
The homecoming dance? u serious?
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Old 09-15-2013, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Guys are simple if you want or need something. Come up to us and ask or tell us to do whatever. Stop hinting, asking in aound about way.
I would like a pumpkin spice latte please.
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