Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 11-18-2007, 10:31 AM
 
Location: the show-me state
672 posts, read 2,125,374 times
Reputation: 757

Advertisements

I just wonder how everyone feels about this late night/early morning phone call stuff. This morning my fiancee called me at about four oclock or so. She had woke up and couldn't go back to sleep, so she called me up just to chat. Of course, this is only one of many times she has called me really early like that. The thing is, it never seems to bother me any. In fact, some of our better conversations have come about this way. I'm one who can blab for a half hour or so, and then go right back to sleep. She enjoys that she can call pretty much anytime, and I am being honest when I say it doesn't bother me. What does everyone else think?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 11-18-2007, 10:54 AM
 
Location: California
11,466 posts, read 19,350,315 times
Reputation: 12713
If it doesn't bother you then it's fine. I would flip if someone called me at 04:00 to chat or late at night, it had better be important.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-18-2007, 11:05 AM
 
4,050 posts, read 6,139,793 times
Reputation: 1574
If you're both fine with it, that's great. I wouldn't question it. I'm like the poster above--I would be pretty angry if someone called me around that hour and it was just to chat. But if the two of you are on the same page where that's concerned, sounds like a good thing.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-18-2007, 11:21 AM
 
Location: NoVa
18,431 posts, read 34,357,424 times
Reputation: 19814
I think that if you are fine with it, there is no question, now, if it were me, I am getting some of my best sleep at that time, and the alarm is getting ready to go off in an hour.

Dont call me unless something is really the matter. This also goes for late night.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-18-2007, 11:53 AM
 
Location: the show-me state
672 posts, read 2,125,374 times
Reputation: 757
I guess part of all this with me is that all my life pretty much, I have either worked at night, or been on a weird type of shift. I know people who would come un-glued if they got woke up late at night, or early morning. It kinda makes me feel like "I'm just not right" or something because it never seems to bother me. I just go back to sleep, like I never woke up.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-18-2007, 11:58 AM
 
Location: in drifts of snow wherever you go
2,493 posts, read 4,399,989 times
Reputation: 692
If you're okay with it, find.

Personally, I'd rather my friend took a sleeping pill than call me in the middle of the night. But that's just me...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-18-2007, 12:04 PM
 
436 posts, read 1,174,252 times
Reputation: 335
I use to have girlfriend who would phone me in early hours of the morning, mostly for phonesex. I never liked it much, but tell her - I wouldnt, so she thought I loved it. Anyway we broke up and of all the things I dont miss about the relationship that would be number one.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-18-2007, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Beautiful Kentucky
820 posts, read 2,868,593 times
Reputation: 565
Well, if both parties are ok with it, then I guess it works. I, myself, would never impose my insomnia on someone else. If someone called me at that hour, I'd be so torn up from hearing the phone ring and imagining some emergency that I'd never get back to sleep. I'm not a happy camper when I get woke up for no good reason. That would not be a good thing for me!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-18-2007, 02:24 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
8,002 posts, read 18,605,167 times
Reputation: 12357
I would wake up horrified if the phone rang at 4:00 a.m., In my family, it usually means someone has died.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-18-2007, 02:29 PM
 
768 posts, read 2,100,669 times
Reputation: 436
Ditto. Not only would I appreciate being awakened at that hour just to chat, I wouldn't dream of bugging someone else at that hour. I'm glad it works for you, though.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top