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I just wonder how everyone feels about this late night/early morning phone call stuff. This morning my fiancee called me at about four oclock or so. She had woke up and couldn't go back to sleep, so she called me up just to chat. Of course, this is only one of many times she has called me really early like that. The thing is, it never seems to bother me any. In fact, some of our better conversations have come about this way. I'm one who can blab for a half hour or so, and then go right back to sleep. She enjoys that she can call pretty much anytime, and I am being honest when I say it doesn't bother me. What does everyone else think?
If you're both fine with it, that's great. I wouldn't question it. I'm like the poster above--I would be pretty angry if someone called me around that hour and it was just to chat. But if the two of you are on the same page where that's concerned, sounds like a good thing.
I think that if you are fine with it, there is no question, now, if it were me, I am getting some of my best sleep at that time, and the alarm is getting ready to go off in an hour.
Dont call me unless something is really the matter. This also goes for late night.
I guess part of all this with me is that all my life pretty much, I have either worked at night, or been on a weird type of shift. I know people who would come un-glued if they got woke up late at night, or early morning. It kinda makes me feel like "I'm just not right" or something because it never seems to bother me. I just go back to sleep, like I never woke up.
I use to have girlfriend who would phone me in early hours of the morning, mostly for phonesex. I never liked it much, but tell her - I wouldnt, so she thought I loved it. Anyway we broke up and of all the things I dont miss about the relationship that would be number one.
Well, if both parties are ok with it, then I guess it works. I, myself, would never impose my insomnia on someone else. If someone called me at that hour, I'd be so torn up from hearing the phone ring and imagining some emergency that I'd never get back to sleep. I'm not a happy camper when I get woke up for no good reason. That would not be a good thing for me!
Ditto. Not only would I appreciate being awakened at that hour just to chat, I wouldn't dream of bugging someone else at that hour. I'm glad it works for you, though.
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