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Old 10-08-2013, 09:33 AM
 
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We all do stupid stuff now & again. Chaulk it up, learn frmo it and move on.

 
Old 10-08-2013, 09:40 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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I really need to rename this thread something more appropriate. Something like "I'm Really Hungover!" or "I'm Really Pathetic" or "I Just wasted $150 and an evening of my life trying to be a normal person and failed miserably." I'm never going out again and there's no way this girl would ever talk to me sans alcohol. All those of you who told me to get out my house and do something, that was terrible advice. Thanks for nothing.
Well............you did have a nice night. It's not like we set you up with our sister or anything.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I really need to rename this thread something more appropriate. Something like "I'm Really Hungover!" or "I'm Really Pathetic" or "I Just wasted $150 and an evening of my life trying to be a normal person and failed miserably." I'm never going out again and there's no way this girl would ever talk to me sans alcohol. All those of you who told me to get out my house and do something, that was terrible advice. Thanks for nothing.
Did something happen to turn you off her, or are you just ghosting on this woman that you hit it off with out of fear?
 
Old 10-08-2013, 09:44 AM
 
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Did something happen to turn you off her, or are you just ghosting on this woman that you hit it off with out of fear?
Good question.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Monterey, CA
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Congrats dont listen to people here. You go for it!!
 
Old 10-08-2013, 10:05 AM
 
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If you still like her, make sure you text her today and are enthusiastic. If you 'play it cool' she will think you are letting yourself be controlled by your own fears; it makes you look weak. Be strong, show her you really like her.

Yes, this is the opposite of how (some)men think. But it is how women think, and a woman is who you want to impress.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 10:20 AM
 
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If you still like her, make sure you text her today and are enthusiastic. If you 'play it cool' she will think you are letting yourself be controlled by your own fears; it makes you look weak. Be strong, show her you really like her.

Yes, this is the opposite of how (some)men think. But it is how women think, and a woman is who you want to impress.
Way ahead of you. I texted her 15 minutes ago "Hi E." She hasn't responded. I'll probably never hear from her again.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 10:56 AM
 
Location: The Great West
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Way ahead of you. I texted her 15 minutes ago "Hi E." She hasn't responded. I'll probably never hear from her again.
LOL

Greatest thread ever. Who posts on city data while drunk?? Hahaha.

This reminds me of texts I get from my drunk friends. And it is always followed by immediate regret. I have been in your position as far as the hangover goes but I can't say I ever fell in love with someone while drunk
 
Old 10-08-2013, 10:59 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Way ahead of you. I texted her 15 minutes ago "Hi E." She hasn't responded. I'll probably never hear from her again.
It's good that you texted her, though "Hi E" is the kind of text that I hate. You're not asking her anything or telling her anything. Say, "I had a great time last night. Let's do it again Friday." or "Hope you're not too hungover this morning " That's something she respond to.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 11:00 AM
 
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Yay, you texted her! Good job!

She may be at work or school, and can't reply till she gets a break.

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"Hi E" is the kind of text that I hate. You're not asking her anything or telling her anything. Say, "I had a great time last night. Let's do it again Friday." or "Hope you're not too hungover this morning " That's something she respond to.
I think it's fine . Sure, more is better, but a text like his just sounds to me like a shorthand for 'Are you busy / can you talk?'.

Plus, it was hard for him to write this much! We gotta encourage him .
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