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Why do most women in this site always deny messages like the one posted. That's the mystery.
It's because they are unable to see past their own personal perspective. It's like my uncle told me you have your view of the world and your perspective and then you have the world for what it is.
If I live in a nice neighborhood and all I see is my nice neighborhood everyday it doesn't mean the world is a nice neighborhood. If I love my job and I think its fun it doesn't mean ll jobs are fun. If my friends are all open minded and come from all sorts of racial backgrounds it doesn't mean racism doesn't exist.
Sure THEY THEMSELVES AND MAYBE EVEN SOME OF THEIR FRIENDS may choose guys based off intelligence and personality but they deny millions and I actually mean 100s of millions upon millions of experiences from men saying otherwise on the Internet. They deny studies, statistics and data all supporting the fact that women care about looks just as much if not more then guys do but women also care about financial stability, intelligence and social status as well.
I wouldn't get frustrated. As long as you understand how the world really is and utilize, impletement the correct information into your life so you can get better a foothold is what matters.
I PERSONALLY wish women where saints and cared more about personality vs finances and looks. Holding a door, pushing out a chair, making compliments would be alot easier then making sure my teeth are nearly perfect, hitting the gym and working my butt off to bring home bacon. Thats not the way it is. You may have A FEW EXCEPTIONS but majority rules women care about looks.
It's interesting though why some women can't see, heck or even blind to reality and they can't see past their own personal perspective.
What evidence? Your evidence is no more persuasive than the women's "evidence", which you refuse to accept. See how that works? It's a 2-way street.
Just fyi, most guys I've been with haven't been sexually attractive. But that doesn't stop me from having sex with them. What's attractive about them is their good heart, sharp mind, and common interests to mine.
BZZZZZZZ *CRASH* Another whiner theory, shot down in flames.
Things I've found the majority of women deem essential in their men:
-tall
-average sized dick
-masculine looking
-reasonably attractive face
-not obese/anorexic
-not balding
things most men deem essential in women:
-shorter than them (though really short men probably compromise)
-not obese
-reasonably attractive face
-feminine
Thoughts? I think the stigma of women caring less about looks is a myth, and they're actually in a position to be more choosy. Guys appreciate things like big boobs but rarely have I seen them considered a prerequisite
And yes, I realize these are generalizations, but then so is the stigma that men care more about looks than women.
Men have their flaws but for some odd reason women tend to deny reality more. It's like men have an easier time excepting the truth and reality but have a harder time actually comming to terms with it or deal with it.
Women on thee other hand flat out deny it if it doesn't fit their personal experiences, or their perspective.
Men have their flaws but for some odd reason women tend to deny reality more. It's like men have an easier time excepting the truth and reality but have a harder time actually comming to terms with it or deal with it.
If that's true, why do so many men here insist that women have many options, go for the best-looking guy within those alleged options, etc. etc.? Maybe it's because men are projecting their own way of thinking onto women, and can't believe that women are different? Ya think, maybe?
My general logic on topics like this is if you're looking to be mad about something, you're sure as hell gonna find it if you dig hard and deep enough.
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