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Prostitute? Link me to the thread where I exchanged sex for money. You are just mad I'm too classy to let a stranger hit me raw & cry about being a ""babymama"
& you are mad I'm too classy to spawn kids out of wedlock.
Am I perfect? NO!! Have I made mistakes I will one day overlook yes! But an out of wedlock kid is a constant reminder, it can NEVER EVER be erased, it just says a woman thinks with her fluid secreting vagina & not her brains! YIKES!
Classy? Says the woman who walks out in panties with holes to avoid sleeping around on her husband. I think the only person thinking with their vagina is you. Honestly I would rather be a single mom, co-parenting with my child's father in a civil respectable way rather than in a miserable marriage to which I stay because my husband makes a lot of money(like you lol). My sons father is active In his life but I was miserable with him so i left. And I'm infinitely happier than I was when I was with him. I feel for you honestly. I can't imagine being in a miserable relationship again. I suppose that is why you are so upset with single moms-they can do it alone, but you can't. You need your miserable husband.
I was not talking about ""divorced"" women. Divorced folk at least once had the integrity to save face & get married. I was talking about women who spurned kids from a commitless relationship as in you have no ring on that finger, you are just shacking up together yet you find the need to blow your stomach with an illegitimate baby, leaving stretchmarks on tow & a dictionary ""bastard"" in your lap. For why??
To each her own, I do not agree with this baby daddy lifestyle, get married first THEN have babies
I don't "save face" and get married--I was in love (not pregnant and it wasn't a shot gun wedding). I got married and had my child 5 years later.
I don't know which single moms you associate with but not all of us make babies with every man we meet. And I have no idea what cycle you are talking about but if you mean being in a commited ltr or married when a child is conceived I don't believe that it is necessarily a bad cycle to repeat. My son was not conceived in a ons or short term relationship. I was with my sons father for 8 years. He is the only guy I have been with sexually and to top it off I am very selective about who I date, especially now. If I do have children again, they will be conceived under a similar circumstance(where I am in a commited monogamous long term relationship or even better married)
You stayed in a commitless relationship for almost a decade did not get a decent wedding but an out of wedlock kid? 8 years is too long to let a man string you along! If a man does not propose in one year you should walk away with no kids & with your womb intact! It took you a decade to figure out he was good enough to use your womb but not your hand in marriage?
You stayed in a commitless relationship for almost a decade did not get a decent wedding but an out of wedlock kid? 8 years is too long to let a man string you along! If a man does not propose in one year you should walk away with no kids & with your womb intact! It took you a decade to figure out he was good enough to use your womb but not your hand in marriage?
You stayed in a commitless relationship for almost a decade did not get a decent wedding but an out of wedlock kid? 8 years is too long to let a man string you along! If a man does not propose in one year you should walk away with no kids & with your womb intact! It took you a decade to figure out he was good enough to use your womb but not your hand in marriage?
I was 17 when we started a relationship. It would have been silly to get married before we graduated college and had stable jobs. By the time that happened we did get engaged, then I found out I was pregnant. Rather than having a quick shot gun wedding, we simply postponed things. Had the baby and he changed. Tried to make it work and it didnt. However unlike you in your commited miserable marriage, I didnt stay with him when I realized it wasn't working . I left. I didnt need his money. I suppose you staying in a miserable marriage because your too broke to do it own your own is a much smarter decision than mine. But at the end of the day I'm happy, I'm dating, I'm not stuck with anyone and no panties in holes for me. Sucks to be in your position. You know the position of a woman in a commited marriage who gets treated like crap but stays for the kids, hoping that her dysfunctional marriage will not influence her children at all, and of course being too financially dependent to leave. I'm so sad I never was able to experience the beauty of such a wonderful commited marriage like yours. Lol
Now that wouldn't make for a good thread now would it?
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