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Old 10-17-2013, 01:16 PM
 
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A hot single mom will have more(and better) options then an average single childless women
For sex yes. But not for a serious relationship. Once a woman has shown that she is incapable of getting married before having kids, no man of substance will take her seriously. Plus why is the ""baby daddy"" gone already? Because he was a bad choice in the first place. More evidence single women generally think with their reproductive organs not brains

 
Old 10-17-2013, 01:20 PM
 
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Wow man, get some respect for yourself... I'm glad you dumped her but dating someone seriously from the start with 4 kids from 3 men?

LOL! Thats what I was thinking too! IMO even a woman with 4 kids from the same man is too much baggage.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 04:06 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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For sex yes. But not for a serious relationship. Once a woman has shown that she is incapable of getting married before having kids, no man of substance will take her seriously. Plus why is the ""baby daddy"" gone already? Because he was a bad choice in the first place. More evidence single women generally think with their reproductive organs not brains
This coming from someone who has no self respect and has sex to get a job because she has no real assets besides prostituting herself out to business men .........You really need a course in sociology and develop a sociological imagination!! It would do you good to open your eyes a bit and stop being so close minded thinking everyone is the same.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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A woman's child should be her #1 priority and a guy that can't understand this should not be anywhere near a single mom.

Single mom's can get dates because it's honestly not a big deal. Most are not looking for a caregiver and free paycheck.

A person's job will come before their S.O, they aren't going to skip work because their SO wants to have lunch just like a single mom isn't going to neglect her child because some clingy boyfriend wants more time.
Totally agree.

Now will I date a single mother? HELL no. But I know that most are functioning members of society like I am and are doing a hell of a job raising their kids, a lot totally by themselves and will kill for their kids. I came from a divorced mother household so I know personally.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 04:30 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Totally agree.

Now will I date a single mother? HELL no. But I know that most are functioning members of society like I am and are doing a hell of a job raising their kids, a lot totally by themselves and will kill for their kids. I came from a divorced mother household so I know personally.
I wouldn't date a single mom because I don't like kids. I'm pretty sure any single mom would run from me.

However, the posts on here and the assumptions made about single moms is downright disgusting. The people on here who are judging are certainly not virgins. If you have sex before marriage, it is a risk you take.. and mistakes DO happen. It could happen to anybody, and don't bull**** me and tell me that any person you'd sleep with you would consider marriage.. if that were the case you'd have been married years ago. It's just a bunch of people who need to judge others to feel better about their own lives.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I wouldn't date a single mom because I don't like kids. I'm pretty sure any single mom would run from me.

However, the posts on here and the assumptions made about single moms is downright disgusting. The people on here who are judging are certainly not virgins. If you have sex before marriage, it is a risk you take.. and mistakes DO happen. It could happen to anybody, and don't bull**** me and tell me that any person you'd sleep with you would consider marriage.. if that were the case you'd have been married years ago. It's just a bunch of people who need to judge others to feel better about their own lives.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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So why are these single mom's work a low wage job?

They are also in Welfare and Food Stamps.
Stereotyping and generalizing, does not apply to all single moms.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 04:40 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Stereotyping and generalizing, does not apply to all single moms.
Some people have a narrow mind and go through life with blinkers on. Very sad if you ask me that they only see a fraction of society and paint everyone the same
 
Old 10-17-2013, 04:56 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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For sex yes. But not for a serious relationship. Once a woman has shown that she is incapable of getting married before having kids, no man of substance will take her seriously. Plus why is the ""baby daddy"" gone already? Because he was a bad choice in the first place. More evidence single women generally think with their reproductive organs not brains
I really cannot believe you, of all people, have the nerve to post this.

Here's a quick recap since you obviously are clueless. Many.. MANY .. single mothers are there due to divorce. Sometimes the divorce is completely their fault, sometimes only partially their fault, and for some of us, we were stranded and abandoned by our POS ex husbands.

You wanna know where "baby daddy" is? In many cases, go knock on his new GF's door...
 
Old 10-17-2013, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Do Single Mother's who are on online dating site even get a date? So it seems like they are also open to going out with guy's who have kid(s).

Lot of the times, I read on their profile that their kids are their life and everything. So if kids are their first priority in life than what are they doing on an online dating site?
Because the fact a woman gave birth gave birth doesn't mean she no longer has any desire for love, sex, affection or companionship. Funny, but nobody expects men with kids to give up dating, only women...
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