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Old 10-17-2013, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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If I were a single man with no children, I would not want the baggage either. Sorry.

 
Old 10-17-2013, 05:10 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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If I were a single man with no children, I would not want the baggage either. Sorry.
The beauty of free will - you don't have to date a gal with kids, you do have that right.

And trust me, if this is how you feel, she doesn't want to date you either.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 05:21 PM
 
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I really cannot believe you, of all people, have the nerve to post this.

Here's a quick recap since you obviously are clueless. Many.. MANY .. single mothers are there due to divorce. Sometimes the divorce is completely their fault, sometimes only partially their fault, and for some of us, we were stranded and abandoned by our POS ex husbands.

You wanna know where "baby daddy" is? In many cases, go knock on his new GF's door...
I know, I think with my reproductive organs and not my brains because three years into my marriage my Ex and decided to have a child and then five years later he left me because he discovered he was gay? But really, to be to tried and judged as stupid because my Ex discovered himself and changed into an almost completely different person and left me? Sure... yeah, that's all *my* fault I am sure.

And again, I am sick to death of this food stamps crap. If I can go by national average, then I probably make more money and have more money saved than most of the people slamming single moms being welfare queens on food stamps. Step away from your computers and go out into the real world.

Listen, I don't care if men don't want to date me because I have a child. That's there choice and I respect it. Although I am not sure why some of them feel the need to chime in and say you won't because that's not what the subject of this thread is. Threads go off topic, I get that, but maybe they can lay off the insults--why are so many of you so hateful towards single moms? There is no one forcing you to date one. And like I said, I don't care if you want to date them or not because there certainly is no shortage of men who will date me... I don't miss out. And I think I found a really good one too that I am now dating regularly.

Okay, my angry rant is over
 
Old 10-17-2013, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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Jillabean +1
 
Old 10-17-2013, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I know, I think with my reproductive organs and not my brains because three years into my marriage my Ex and decided to have a child and then five years later he left me because he discovered he was gay? But really, to be to tried and judged as stupid because my Ex discovered himself and changed into an almost completely different person and left me? Sure... yeah, that's all *my* fault I am sure.

And again, I am sick to death of this food stamps crap. If I can go by national average, then I probably make more money and have more money saved than most of the people slamming single moms being welfare queens on food stamps. Step away from your computers and go out into the real world.

Listen, I don't care if men don't want to date me because I have a child. That's there choice and I respect it. Although I am not sure why some of them feel the need to chime in and say you won't because that's not what the subject of this thread is. Threads go off topic, I get that, but maybe they can lay off the insults--why are so many of you so hateful towards single moms? There is no one forcing you to date one. And like I said, I don't care if you want to date them or not because there certainly is no shortage of men who will date me... I don't miss out. And I think I found a really good one too that I am now dating regularly.

Okay, my angry rant is over
 
Old 10-17-2013, 06:16 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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For sex yes. But not for a serious relationship. Once a woman has shown that she is incapable of getting married before having kids, no man of substance will take her seriously. Plus why is the ""baby daddy"" gone already? Because he was a bad choice in the first place. More evidence single women generally think with their reproductive organs not brains
Wait, what??

You're the "holy" underwear lady right?

I'm not sure if you are in a position to judge. Other positions, maybe, this position, no.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 06:22 PM
 
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More evidence single women generally think with their reproductive organs not brains
Go over to the porn thread and tell me who's really thinking with their reproductive organs.
 
Old 10-17-2013, 06:56 PM
 
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For sex yes. But not for a serious relationship. Once a woman has shown that she is incapable of getting married before having kids, no man of substance will take her seriously. Plus why is the ""baby daddy"" gone already? Because he was a bad choice in the first place. More evidence single women generally think with their reproductive organs not brains
Dude, you would be surprised. Most men would wife a Hot single mom over an average childless woman. Yes even men with "substance"

If its a choice between Scarlett Johannsen who has a kid and a girl Who is average at best who is childless guys are Taking SJ no questions asked
 
Old 10-18-2013, 12:49 AM
 
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Because the fact a woman gave birth gave birth doesn't mean she no longer has any desire for love, sex, affection or companionship. Funny, but nobody expects men with kids to give up dating, only women...
The father's aren't taking care of the child though. They are paying Child Support.
 
Old 10-18-2013, 06:05 AM
 
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The father's aren't taking care of the child though. They are paying Child Support.
I guess you have never heard of shared custody? It is actually very common. Look it up.

I am starting to wonder why you have a huge chip on your shoulder over this, when it appears you don't even date women at all.
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