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I am single, never married, and I don't have any kids. I broke up with a single mom who has 4 kids from 3 men, because she said that she wanted to get married in a couple years even though we only dated for 2 months and she wants a father figure for her 4 kids. But I wouldn't marry someone who has 4 kids with someone else and spend the rest of my life taking care of 4 kids who are not mine. I could handle 1 or 2 kids, but not 4. She works a part-time job, and her kids are on Medicaid. I fell in love with her, and I cried twice after I broke up with her. It was the hardest decision I ever made concerning a relationship, but it was definitely the right decision. But I will never date a single mom with more than 2 kids from someone else.
For sex yes. But not for a serious relationship. Once a woman has shown that she is incapable of getting married before having kids, no man of substance will take her seriously. Plus why is the ""baby daddy"" gone already? Because he was a bad choice in the first place. More evidence single women generally think with their reproductive organs not brains
I agree. For sex =yes
relationship=no if they have kids and hot.
Not my fault, she went out with the loser bad boy in college when I was a geek lol.
I agree. For sex =yes
relationship=no if they have kids and hot.
Not my fault, she went out with the loser bad boy in college when I was a geek lol.
You are still an idiot! What about the single parents who's SO died? Cheated after 20 years? Fell out of love? You scumbags who ASSUME that single parents have ONS and that's that are so ridiculous it's actually frightening to think there are still people like you in the world. We wonder why Society is ****ed up and why we have so many discriminations and it all stems from close minded pathetic people like you!
Open your eyes and look at the world, everything has changed people cheat more, get bored, fall out of love and most importantly people don't work for their relationships they find it easier to move on which personally I don't agree with however it is how it is. If you are still stuck in the 40's 50's etc you're going to live a very closed minded narrow exsistance.
You are still an idiot! What about the single parents who's SO died? Cheated after 20 years? Fell out of love? You scumbags who ASSUME that single parents have ONS and that's that are so ridiculous it's actually frightening to think there are still people like you in the world. We wonder why Society is ****ed up and why we have so many discriminations and it all stems from close minded pathetic people like you!
Open your eyes and look at the world, everything has changed people cheat more, get bored, fall out of love and most importantly people don't work for their relationships they find it easier to move on which personally I don't agree with however it is how it is. If you are still stuck in the 40's 50's etc you're going to live a very closed minded narrow exsistance.
Give the OP a break. He is an inexperienced, sheltered Indian kid.
Serious question OP. Where do you live? City, and planet.
In any major metro, hot women in their 30's and 40's have a plethora of dating options regardless of whether or not they have kids. You and the few hundred thousand other guys like you, would be begging them for a date, sex, marriage, or whatever she is willing to hand you.
Now back to your fantasy land where you believe they should be chasing you. Aint gonna happen.
I can't believe I actually agree with something OP says.
I personally do not feel single parents should date, if their kids are younger than, say 12-13.
Up till then they are very attached to you and any attempt to bring in another party is almost doomed to failure.
Once the kids get their own social lives they stop giving a fig about what you're doing - date away.
I was a single mother for 10 years. Kids are grown and gone and I'm still single - by choice.
I'm amazed these mothers can even be bothered with another guy after what they've been through (divorce, desertion) but some women are needy like that or maybe just slow learners.
I work with a girl that is 26 with 2 kids and not married. All she does is complain about life and money. Now she is dating this guy we work with that is a player that just gave her attention she needed. I think this girl will never learn. Soon she will have 3 kids and still single. Some people are their worst enemy.
What do you mean you did not have a choice to have a child?
Your reading comprehension is as poor as your writing skills.
Please reread the post you are commenting on!
If English is not your first language I'm guessing you are about 13 years old.
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