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Old 10-13-2013, 12:15 AM
 
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Do Single Mother's who are on online dating site even get a date? So it seems like they are also open to going out with guy's who have kid(s).

Lot of the times, I read on their profile that their kids are their life and everything. So if kids are their first priority in life than what are they doing on an online dating site?

 
Old 10-13-2013, 12:23 AM
 
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Is this a real question?
 
Old 10-13-2013, 02:56 AM
 
Location: Dar es salaam
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hah..................lol they just find boys for their pleasure
 
Old 10-13-2013, 04:36 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Do Single Mother's who are on online dating site even get a date? So it seems like they are also open to going out with guy's who have kid(s).

Lot of the times, I read on their profile that their kids are their life and everything. So if kids are their first priority in life than what are they doing on an online dating site?

A woman's child should be her #1 priority and a guy that can't understand this should not be anywhere near a single mom.

Single mom's can get dates because it's honestly not a big deal. Most are not looking for a caregiver and free paycheck.

A person's job will come before their S.O, they aren't going to skip work because their SO wants to have lunch just like a single mom isn't going to neglect her child because some clingy boyfriend wants more time.
 
Old 10-13-2013, 05:04 AM
 
Location: NC, But has plans to move to Minneapolis/Bloomington, MN
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Enjoy your life and your son's life. Don't look for a man, allow a good man to find you.
 
Old 10-13-2013, 05:19 AM
 
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There's such a thing called "balance"
Someone with kids can have a social life, a family life and a professional life.
Why is this concept so hard to understand?
 
Old 10-13-2013, 05:36 AM
 
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This is a tough one...

Situations can cause one to start over at a later time in life when they were not expecting it.

The fact that they have kids in tow shouldn't mean they can't get a date.

There are men out there in the same situation that can sympathize with what they are dealing with and they both can blend families.
 
Old 10-13-2013, 07:59 AM
 
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lol seriously? This is a really stupid thread.

I know a few single mothers who have used online dating and have had good results in finding dates and creating relationships with some of the men they dated. i don't know that many single mothers IRL BTW.

I think the men on this forum who consistently say that single mothers are only looking for a man because they provide a paycheck have no idea what they are talking about because most are still looking for a connection, the only thing they may be looking for is a man who might be a decent role model for there kids, not a man who's looking to smoke dope, come home drunk and smelling of weed.

Hell, even the single mother of 4 kids I know found someone and is settling down with him, and the guy doesn't do anything to help raise those kids that isn't his choice to do.
 
Old 10-13-2013, 08:18 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Do Single Mother's who are on online dating site even get a date? So it seems like they are also open to going out with guy's who have kid(s).

Lot of the times, I read on their profile that their kids are their life and everything. So if kids are their first priority in life than what are they doing on an online dating site?
Yes you figured us out. We have a child so now our life is over. No more men in our life. And only concentrate on the kid. And when the child is older and hanging with friends we should only paint murals of the child. Then the child goes to college and becomes a adult. I should sit in my rocking chair and knit a blanket.

We are human.We need love and interaction from another human being.Doing grown up hobbies, outings, conversations.

I'm really trying to understand the level of assumptions that many assume. The real world isn't like this. Shun the single mom's!!!
 
Old 10-13-2013, 11:56 PM
 
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Is this a real question?
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